There's this girl that I work with that's very cute and I've been wanting to see if there could be more between us but oh my GOD is so damn hard to get a hint from her if she likes me! She's a high school senior and I'm a college sophomore, and I usually try to avoid younger girls because they're usually immature, but she's very mature and I like her a lot, but I can't get a read on her. She's in the middle when it comes to introverted and extroverted, and she hasn't been in a relationship. Ever (rare I know) so my friend thinks she just doesn't know how to send signals, from the signals she's given she either really likes me or hates me, I can't tell! If anyone knows a sure fire way to test her (in a working environment, retail to be precise), or maybe a signal that I could be overlooking, please let me know, this has been bugging me for weeks!
From the sounds of it. Doesn't look like this girl is going to send any clear signals. Time for you to step up your game. One day, when it's just you two. Blurt out, "whoa, I totally like you. " and say it in a really non-serious way. If she smiles immediately or kinda shyly smiles. She likes you. And is glad you said something. If she gives you odd/surprised look or kinda of punches you back in a sisterly kind of way -- she doesn't like you. Just throw that out there. Make sure you don't say it too seriously or matter-of-factly. Saying it jokingly will give her an indirect idea. Make sure you read her face. If there is an akward pause after you say that. That is also good. Most likely she feels the same way. Anyways, throw it out there!
Dude she is in high school, your in college. Helloooo! College girls is what you should be dating, get out of the high school thing. It's pretty much illegal. Forget the signals and think about what your doing. You stressing over a high school girl when you should be getting some college lovin'. Seriously bro, lets move on to your to girls your age.
College girls are fun , but there is nothing wrong with high school ones, plus senior girl = more than likely to be 18 , so it wouldn't be illegal then and he is only 20! - A month ago
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