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4 hours ago in Flirting
Guys: is he shy or just not interested?
I've been hanging out with one of my guy friends a lot lately and at first it was obvious that he liked me: he would stare at me, text me to find out what I was doing, and he even kissed me when we were drunk, but I doubt he remembers.so now its more of me just wandering around clueless because he... more
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How do I know if he's my boyfriend?
I've been seeing this guy for about three weeks or so. We're both 20. Anyway, we hang out several times a day, and when we don't, he calls me a lot. We've had sex, and he says he is not interested in any other girls. He said "I really really like you" and he worries about me when I go out alone.... more
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5 hours ago in Relationships
How do I know if he cheated on me at a strip club?
I've been seeing this guy for about a month. He tells me he really likes me, and we're not seeing anyone else. (So basically if we hooked up with other people, it would be cheating). He is very respectful of women, doesn't watch porn and is grossed out by strippers, never had a one night stand.... more
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Brit86   (Age:18 to 24)
7 hours ago in Flirting
Is he into me or just asking weird?
I have had many times when guys will look, but not touch, at least the guys that I wanted to touch me, because the feeling was mutual. But most guys won't say anything. So I am in class and I sit in the back next to this guy, who is attractive. One day I dropped my pen in between our seats he picks... more
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Riverfall113   (Age:18 to 24)
8 hours ago in Dating
Where should me and my friend that is a girl go?
I want to go somewhere with my friend. I want to go somewhere fun, and kind of personal, but I don't want to like ask her on like a date. So girls, if you just wanted to go somewhere with your friend, where would you want them to take you? (also, she used to like me, and I do still like her, I'm not... more
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cknowles   (Age:18 to 24)
8 hours ago in Flirting
Confusing guy, does he like me or not?
There's a guy at work who I email with frequently.Sometimes we have really flirtatious emails, but then he'll just stop replying sometimes. Some days he's not flirtatious at all.He flirts with everyone at work, so it's difficult to tell. I'm not sure if that means he's not interested, or if he's... more
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15 hours ago in Other
Have you seen 11:11 before?
So my question is has anyone seen that sign before - 11:11? Anywhere, it could be on the digital clock, microwave, receipts, plate numbers?Well it's called a 11:11 Phenomenon. A lot of people see it lately on a daily basis. It took me a while to figure out the meaning behind it. Now, I can't speak... more
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16 hours ago in Flirting
Asking a Girl To Homecoming?
Ok I want to ask my ex to homecoming (actually I want to get back with my ex period, but let's not discuss that here). So I came up with an idea that I would write "Homecoming - Rob" on her yard in glowsticks. So I bought all the one's I needed, drew up a diagram of where I was going to place them... more
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17 hours ago in Behavior
Why can't most women accept any criticism without getting angry/trying to retaliate?
This is true when dating but in general at work or play as well.

Of course they consider themselves free to gossip and backbite as much as they want.and tha'ts supposed to be above criticism as wel.
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19 hours ago in Flirting
Could someone help me?
I told this girl that I liked her ,knowing that she has a boyfriend and she said that we can hang out as long as I didn't try to kiss her. Today which is about four weeks since I told her, I asked her if me and my other friend could visit her at her home later at night and she said just to call her... more
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