I, myself, like to think I'm a man of my words. I'll often promise to girls that I will always be there for them, and granted I know that that is practically impossible, I hold to my promise as best I can no matter what. If I say I'm going to be there for someone in tough times I will be there for them.
Does anyone else make promises that they do everything in their power to keep?
Update: Would you try and keep the promise even if the person became cruel, unkind, and pushed you away? (Assuming that this person is hurting inside and is confused)
A month ago
of course yo my friends that I told you about that I am close wit if I promised them something I would do anything for her to keep even if it meant givin my life to save hers like if she axed me to promise to always help and protect her I could do it in a heart beat
I haven't really promised anything. If my girl asks me to promise to her that I will always be there for them, then I would promise of course. I feel as if it's an automatic kind of thing. I want to be there for my girl, and I should. All you can do is your best. No excuses. And it does becomes more difficult to keep this kind of promise when your girlfriend becomes unkind or something of that nature. This is something that I have experienced first hand. If you truly lover a girl, you would be patient, wait for her to calm down, and return to her regular mood, and stay by her side. Just like it says in 1 Corinthians chapter 13 (i forgot what verse it is, sorry), "Love is patient"
I do everything I can, if I tell her I'm going to be there, I'm going to be there no matter what, what's the point of lying, unless your trying to hide something, and bs is not good in relationships at all. Eventually they will find out.
Do guys REALLY mean it when they say it then, as a few weeks ago I was upset and my friend(who also is my ex) sat there with me wiping the tears from my eyes and said he will always be there for me. Is this not something that is said just to make you feel better at the time,or would you not say it if you didn't mean it? - A month ago
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Sparklesista, I think it really depends on the person. I know some people, like myself, are so genuine that we really do mean what we say. It's a part of who we are, and yes, sometimes it is said just to make someone else feel better.
I've been put through hell, seriously horrible hell, by a girl I was once amazing friends with, but I promised I'd be there for her, and I want to be there for her, and I want to help her. It all depends on who you are. - A month ago
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