So in turn, you then are afraid of her or start to get intimidated because you have these feelings for her, but are not sure about her feelings, so you kinda then act not as interested, or you start to act more reserved with her? Kinda like playing hard to get with her, to possibly test her to see if she really likes you, even though she has told you that she likes you? Thoughts? Thanks!
I'm kind of in this situation right now. There's this girl that I asked out 3 years ago but due to complications in my life we stopped talking. We never dated, we had just talked on the phone for a few months.
Earlier this year, I found her on MySpace. After she realized who I was when I emailed her, we began talking again through email and by phone. About a month ago I found out she has a boyfriend that she has been seeing for the last 1. 5 years. Well for the first few months this year I was all over this girl with sending emails and keeping updated by phone but recently I feel like I have lost her and at the same time I'm not sure if I should continue to pursue her since the news of her having a boyfriend already.
In a way she has hurt me already because 3 years ago she had just broken up with her cheating EX and wasn't ready for a relationship. Within the few months that I had been talking to her over the phone 3 years ago I kept letting her know that I wanted to go out with her but she kept repeating that she wasn't ready.
I also found out recently that this girl that I like has had 2 other boyfriends before the one she is currently with and after she had broken up with the cheating EX. So if you think about it, she was with 2 other guys after I stopped talking to her in the 1. 5 years before her current relationship.
She knew back then how I felt for her and in the present day I'm sure she has figured out by now that those feelings never left. But what she doesn't know is that I'm thinking of not pursuing her anymore and just cut her off completely. I'm thinking that if I continue to pursue her and hope that when she does finally break it off with her current boyfriend then after she has had time to get over him, I could finally be with her. Although, at the present moment I really don't know how much longer I can wait for her.
Anyone has the potential to hurt you. The question is, are you willing to take that risk? If not, nothing happens. I find the whole "I could get hurt" schtick a little annoying because it puts all the risks on the other partner.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would like to go on a group date either with his friends or my friends. We would probably go on a bonfire n the beach. I would wear shorts/tank top and my two piece (ofcourse its a beach outting). And the date will end up probably chattin just the two of us and a good night hug.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
He will know that I can dance and that I'm really sweet and thoughtfull.lol. And some of my interest like my hobbies, favorite food, favorite movie all that stuff. Oh and he will know that I'm the slowest eater in the world because I take my time.lol.
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