Last night this guy I like and he likes me, told me that I'm to Paranoid and I don't TRUST HIM. Witch is not true, I do. the reason he says this cause I have trust issues with guys, and another reason is cause we are so far apart. but I trust him.. I never said he was seeing someone cheating etc.. I think I finally found out why he don't talk to me as much, is there a way I can show him I really do trust him?
I think he's saying that as a way to put a rift in your relationship. This sabotage is either because he may want a future way out or is testing your resolve. Either way, it's not a good sign. You can't "prove" you can be trusted with words, only actions. If you want this to work out, don't talk to him about previous trust issues with other guys or your just setting yourself up for him to meet your expectations. Let your past stay in the past. Act today how you want to be treated tomorrow. Tell him (or the next guy) that you DO trust guys (you may have to lie about it at first) and you'll be starting a new pattern that he will be expected to follow.
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