How can I enjoy sex without penetrating the vagina

I'm still a virgin, but there's so many ways to enjoy it without penetration.
try the 69 position for giving each other oral sex at the same time.
touch each other and keep it really varied. Don't be afraid to experiment - that goes for oral sex too!

try video-recording the action for added enjoyment later.
try doing things where you wouldn't normally. A public toilet cubicle, in the car, in the countryside, in a swimming pool/jacuzzi/lake.

perhaps like tammymac said, you could be ready for a more meaningful relationship that doesn't just revolve around the physical fun.

Tired of sex? I just didn't think I'd ever live to see the day when a guy would say that.... now that the shock has worn off a bit, I'd say you need to get back to the basics. Part of the excitement of having sex was when it was all new. You remember the first kisses you stole from a girl, do you remember the feeling of excitement the first time you saw a woman naked. The feeling of wonder and excitement sounds like what you might be missing. Do you remember the endless hours of just making out, that you must have done as a teenager before sex entered into the picture. Sounds like you need to recapture that feeling of aw. Foreplay is good but I'd go further back then that. ( I don't really want to get right into it here but you can message me if you need some clarity on this)


I don't know if you have a regular partner or not cause you don't mention it, but if you do sometimes sex can become like more of a chore than something you really enjoy doing. If that's what has happened it's likely that your partner is feeling the same way. Talk to her about how you can spice it up and make it interesting for both of you. ( I have some ideas on this too) Maybe she has been waiting to try something new but didn't know how to approach the subject with you without sounding dissatisfied with your current sex life.

But if you are a single guy who's just tired of f***ing girls maybe you are ready to have a meaningful relationship that involves more then just sex. More details are needed to confirm this.

Why don't you just lie down on the couch and tell us all about it. lol Sorry I just caught a glimps of what I was sounding like and thought I'd throw in the couch reference.

Have oral sex both ways, touch each other.

You can always give/receive oral sex with her.
And you can masturbate, if you want gratification while you are alone.

Wow, then it wouldn't technically be called sex now would it.

Don't do it for a while, get kinky and try new things outside of the woman. There are many things to enjoy. Also try foreplay.