So here's the thing. My boyfriend of one year wants us to take the next step. But for some odd reason he REALLY wants to go down on me. It'd be cool if he did but every time he tries I stop him before he can even get my panties off. Because it seems AWKWARD, knowing that it would be both our "first time" and I feel bad. Please help. I wanna be able to just let him ya know?
If it's what you want but you are nervous, have a talk with him and see if there is anything he can do to help you feel comfortable. Communication can really help these kinds of things.
Some guys get off on oral sex a lot more than anything else. its the excitement of foreplay and the thought of having his or her partner climax that one. he probably just wants to explore you and see your limitations.
You wanna be able to just let him? Then just let him, simple as that. Honestly what do you really have to worry about, as long as you keep yourself clean and trimmed there's no problem, you don't want to stink... but that still may not stop him. Never stopped me.
I personally think that you should have a frank discussion with him and make sure you are both on the same page when it comes to this situation. Make sure that he knows why you are hesitating. Then once he understands this you may both be more comfortable and more likely to proceed. :)
If you're not ready because of your age or other concerns, then OK, but if you have hangups about the specific act, or feel selfish about it, etc. I would seriously consider getting over it. You're missing out.
You will know when to let him. First of all it helps if you can totally not think about anything, especially what he,s doing, smelling, seeing, etc. Those thoughts will ruin the moment and the act itself. Just close your eyes and relax.
Your first time is always gonna feel awkward. I didn't let my boyfriend go down on me for 6 months and till now, we have been together for over a year, I have only let him do it 3 times. I hate it, I mean he is good and it feels great when he does it, I just feel selfish when he does it for some reason, he loves doing it but and always tries to but I push his head away. I don't know what it is, it's like we want them to do it, but we don't. It's weird, I think it's true when they say girls think too much.
yesterday I gave my man an awesome blow job, but he doesn't seem like wants to go down on me.How can I make him go down on me ? And how can I make him...
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When: 10 months ago
