So here is a story for you, I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months and I caught him cheating and kicked his ass. We broke up and he begged me to take him back. After talking for a couple of days and setting some ground rules I decided to give him another chance. But I am finding it really hard to trust him again. :(
My boyfriend has some emotional and self esteem problems from previous relationships and I want to trust him and help him but I am scared that he is going to do it again. He has been great through all of this and is really trying but I don't know how long that is going to last or if it is just part of his game. What should I do? Should I stay and try to see what happens or should I run for the hills and cut my losses? Also consider that I have a relationship with his kids and he has one with mine and that I am pregnant.
I would just cut your loses and move on, men have a habit of repeating Old habits. So even though you told him the new rules and stuff, he will probably only try to be more sneaky about his private business.
I think you need to talk to him and tell him how your feeling, tell him your concerns. Ask him for reassurance and go with your gut instinct. Me personally if my fiance ever cheated on me it would be over forever, and we have a child together, that line is not to be crossed and she knows it. I don't worry about that though we respect each other and love one another too much. you decided to give him another chance he is lucky, VERY lucky so keep him in check and until you feel better and the trust is restored have him account for his actions, wherabouts, and the places he goes. Due to my career field I trust nearly no one, you can always follow him and see if his stories check up, write the mileage down on his car and see how far he has driven, mapquest it and see if the mileage checks out ..... also you can request a copy of his cell phone records and see if any phone calls incoming or recieved match a culperate. REMEMBER HE CHEATED ON U THEREFORE GLOVES ARE OFF UNTIL U ARE CONFIDENT THE TRUST IS BACK CONFIRM ANY SUSPITIONS, GO WITH YOUR GUTT FEELING IT WILL BE RIGHT ON EVERY TIME..... GOOD LUCK
Wow. You are pregnant, damn. Well, this is my advice. If he is being good then you should stay with him and try and help him be a better man. But if he does it again then you should leave him completely.
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