Still a virgin?

I gave it at 13. It was my older sister's friend, and she was really cute and I couldn't help myself. She kinda liked me too, so I went for it, and it was a lot of fun.

Even at my age I'm still a virgin by choice. I am a very attractive guy, athletic, with a college degree, and I have a very bright and wealthy future career ahead of me. So I've had a few girls attracted to me. But I wasn't attracted to their character, so I didn't pursue them.

I could only have sex with the one girl I know I am in love with and will live with until the end. I'll find her soon enough. If she ends up being the only one in my whole life, then I will die a very happy man.

I'm still a virgin and I'm 24. I look at it this way. I have only a few things I can give my future wife: my mind (but that's been corrupted and taken by life), my love/heart (but I've said I love you to others/offered them my heart and even say I love you about pizza - different kind of love, but you get my point), my soul (but that belongs to God), and my body. She'll have my mind, as much as I can give. She'll have my love, what I can give and more. But I want to give her something special, something no one else has had or that anyone has corrupted. I want that first time to be special, and I do believe it is special unlike an earlier answerer. If you look at it as not special than you are saying your 16th, 18th, and 21st, birthdays aren't special, but just another birthday or just another day in your life. I'd rather look back on my life and say, "I lost my virginity to someone I truly loved and who truly loved me." I didn't lose it just for the sake of losing it. I didn't lose it because I got tired of waiting and wanted to see what it was like. But at the same time, I'm not holding onto it because my religion is telling me to, which it is. I'm not holding onto it because I'm some prude. I'm simply holding on to it so that first, in a world quickly running out of important firsts as I get older, will be something I will remember not as a mistake, not as a one night stand with some random girl, but as a special night between myself and the woman I love and want to spend the rest of my life with. And the woman I'm with will know it's something special that only she got.

I WAS 16 dating an 19 year old girl, it just kinda happened lol

For me, marriage is a completely arbitrary cut off put. Since I don't plan on ever getting married, it is stupid for me to wait. I'm 19 and I feel that there is really no reason to not have sex. I just make sure that it's safe (condoms and birth control) and that both parties are consenting. (I don't bang drunk chicks) I lost my virginity about 7 months ago. The first time isn't really special or anything. It's just awkward since probably neither person is probably very good at it yet.

Well I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin. Don't get me wrong I want to lose it but not just to anybody. I want to lose it to the girl that I'm sure to spend the rest of my life with, the girl that I love, and I personally prefer a virgin also to avoid any chance of STD's.

I'm still a virgin and I'm 13. It's up to you but I'd rather end mine now because I want to see what it feels like. But you will know when the time is right.

For me, I guess I lost my virginity more in the heat of the moment kind of thing. Don't get me wrong, the boy I lost it too I have been very close with for a few years and I had very strong feelings for him and I trusted him so it wasn't like I lost it to just anybody, but sometimes I wish I could take it back. It seems like though, society makes losing your virginity out to be a bigger deal than it really is. Maybe just with times changing it isn't as big of a deal anymore and it's not looked down upon so much or maybe it's just how I view things. I do think though if you can wait until marriage and give it to someone you really love, you definitely should do that. I'm sure it would be worth the wait and I'm sure it would make it so much more special.

I'm 23 and still a virgin. I have a boyfriend (he's 22) and he's a virgin also. We're not waiting till marriage. I'm just waiting until I'm ready, which won't be long. ;)

I am 20 and I am still a virgin. well I got a bf and we both planned on waiting till we are married. and I am fine with it even though I would wanna have it even before being married... but I will wait for him
so we just decided together

I am 20 and I am still a virgin. Well I got a boyfriend and we both planned on waiting till we are married. And I am fine with it even though I would wanna have it even before being married. But I will wait for him
so we just decided together

I am waiting until marriage to have sex because I believe it is something special that I only want to share with the man I am going to spend the rest of my life with. I believe that it is the only gift that I can give totally to my husband. I am Catholic and I believe that has impacted my decision to wait until marriage but I want to share that special gift with just one person.

I'm saving it for the right guy. I don't know if I'm going to get married or not, ( I have commitment issues) but.. definitely saving it for the right guy.

It was important to me but the guy who I lost it on I'm in love with and I don't regret it. But then again I'm not one of those types of girls who is all religious and wants to wait for marriage.. everyone is different.

God made sex to be a beautiful thing, to be the uniting of a husband and wife. Nothing else. Not to mention all of the STD's. I'm a Christian, and the Bible says that sex should a) be between a man and a woman, and b) between a HUSBAND AND WIFE.
That's why lol. :P
God Bless,
Kat

Because I wreckon there is nothing more precious than your husband knowing he's the first one to ever enter that territory, or to see the most personal part of you.