Well I was talking to one of my lady friends and we got on the subject of sex. (She's a virgin but I'm not) Well she said something crazy like "when you have sex for the first time, it's safer to use a condom" (correct always) but then she said using a condom on her for the first time is bad for her. So I don't really know what to think. I know I don't wanna kid, someone give me some feed back!
I have never heard anything that would tell me that using a condom would be dangerous to use on a virgin.
There are some girls (and guys) that are sensitive to the latex and even spermicide used on/in condoms. In those cases you can use a sheepskin condom (will not prevent STDs).
I would ask her where she heard that from, she is probably confusing this with something else that she heard.
But you're right, you don't want a kid, so wrap your tool.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I pretty much always start out with a friendly greeting. I follow that up with a comment or question relating to where we are (club, amusement park, etc...). After that, just find out whether she is there with other people and what they are up to that evening. If the conversation to that point goes well, I then ask her/them if they want to join me/us and take it from there.
How do they typically respond?
With this approach, I have had success (I would say at least 2/3 of the time) and it might have to do with the genuine attempt to get to know them. Its important to display a calm and confident approach because its those brief moments in which a girl decides whether to deny you or is left intrigued by you and is wanting more.