The same girl I've been stressing about,...well two weeks ago we were supposed to hit the movies,...Then she canceled because her gramps had a stroke,...(understandable),...then she asked me to lunch,...which was today. She said "my legs hurt, I can't move I won't be able to make it today". I mean do you think she is playing with me or should I be more patient?Maybe 3 strikes and your out? The worst thing about it is she was so saying that she was happy to be going then turns around and didn't even say SORRY for canceling. I even offered to come give her a massage but she never replied. Should I give it one more go or just say forget her? Help, please!
Update: welll what a weird twist this was,...she said she was never intrested,...hmmm just my luck huh!!!
I agree with the person below me. Maybe she really likes you and is too scared to go out with you because going out with someone can be frightening at first. Yes, definitely give her time and then call her and meet up another time.
I wouldn't really worry about it. I'd give her a bit more time because women sometimes just need some time. You don't really know if something has happened to her to make her afraid of dating. This is how I was. I had a bad experience with men once, and with the boyfriend I have now, I made excuses because I was afraid. give her some time, maybe call her just to talk, not to set anything up. ;)
How many times have you been talking to her or actually met her? I'm kind of dealing with a woman like that right now myself. Right now she can be just stressing... because of her grandpa and all that... but there could be other stuff too. As long as you don't call her 18 times a day I doubt that it should be a problem... but women are strange!
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Like with me, most women that I've dated had the damnest time being on the level and straight. They would BS me from time to time. Right now I've known this girl since July that I have been seeing and I don't know if I am gonna stay with her. We were supposed to go out for dinner and she flaked. 3 weeks later I found out that she was exclusive with another guy. Though she says that she's still interested! Go figure!
But then again... I had an ex who was very shy about how she felt... and because "she didn't want me to be angry" there were a couple times that she lied. So knows. If she calls ya... keeps in touch... don't sweat it. She may have a lot going on right now. Especially if you have only known her for a few month... but if she's being flakey 2-3 months down the road... ditch her. Be patient... be firm.
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I usually ask the girl where she wants to go and try to create something based on that. Typical stuff, dinner, maybe a movie, bowling. Ideally I would give her a short kiss goodnight if things went well but that's the most. I wouldn't push for too much more.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
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