There is a guy at work who smiles at me, says hello every day, stares (sometimes) and has asked me whether I'm going to happy hours in the past. I THINK these are signs that he likes me but I'm scared to ask him. If he doesn't, I'll feel so stupid and I'll still have to see him everyday! What should I do?
I'd say he definitely likes you. Lots of young guys are absolutely terrified of approaching girls, especially when there are other people about. Try to find a way of getting him somewhere alone with you if you can. Then YOU do the talking. Push the situation along a bit by suggesting the two of you do something together. You could do yourself (and him) a big favour.
You should read guy magazines and stuff like that, they generally have tips on how guys should "attract" a woman... then you will know what to look out for.
But it seems that this guy likes you, cos these "indicators" all seem to point towards the fact that he is trying to get your attention and that he likes you- cos that's what my physics teacher told the guys in our class to do lol
You gotta take risks to get rewarded in life. Just ask him if he wants to grab a drink after work. If he says yes, that's a good sign too. Then, at the bar or whatever, he should say something that indicates whether or not he likes you. Set it up so the ball is in his court then see what he does with it.
Yeah, those are positive signs that he likes you. You should go to a happy hour, have a few drinks and see how he acts towards you when you're not in an office setting. If he singles you out a few times and seems to ignore the other people you're hanging with, it's a pretty safe bet that he likes you.
It sounds like he likes you, just don't waste this opportunity. Talk to him a lot and use flirty body language. Ask him out in a non-threatening way (so he doesn't feel like his masculinity is challenged); try asking him to 'meet up' instead of 'go on a date' and do an activity that's not traditionally a date.
Ask him in a casual way to grab lunch or a quick drink. Play it cool at first so that if he doesn't really like you, he's just being friendly, you won't be uncomfortable. If he says, "Nah, I can't today" and leaves it at that, he probably doesn't like you. If he's says, "Sure!" or "I can't today but how about tomorrow?" then he probably does like you.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
Pick up lines are so cheesy. If I'm downtown I usually start by commenting on someone's outfit or asking them what they are up to for the night. If I'm in class or see someone during the day, I'll try to strike up a conversation by talking about something we both have in common, like class or something neutral.
How do they typically respond?
They usually give me their full attention and begin a nice two way conversation for at least a few minutes. Sometimes it ends with them giving me their number, or me asking for it if I'm still interested, Other times one of us will try to make plans to meet up some other time.
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