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Long distance and I don't love her

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shanekokayne (Age:Under 18)     When: 7 months ago
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Theres a girl in California who's really in love with me...I'm not "in love" with her though, but I love her to death, so no matter what I'll always be there when she needs me...but how do I go about getting a girl living closer to me? Should I not tell her but maintain the relationship we have...or should I risk breaking her heart and hurting her bad?

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LadyLush (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
First ask yourself this... would you be "in love" if she lived closer to you? If so work something out it sounds as tho she means alot to you. If not then the best thing is to be honest with her esp if you care about her feelings so much not telling her would just tear her up more in the end and you could lose a wonderful friendship.

Let her know just what you said that you love her to death and will always be there for her and keep your friendship strong to prove it... as for getting another girl if you truly want one and feel you are ready to move on that fast then go for it I'm sure you will meet someone as long as you don't look too hard... but you should give your self a little time after the breakup to decide what it is you are looking for in another girl and what you want and need out of your next possible relationship... she may be hurt at first that's a common reaction but just remember real friends are honest and all you can't help the way you feel even if she is head over heels for you.

Who knows she could be doubting things too and just leading you to believe she's so in love so she doesn't hurt you... talk to her be up front and real and find out for yourself good luck!
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marisa (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
I think you've got to be honest with the girl in California. It'll hurt her but it'll hurt more if she found out you were cheating on her!
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