Ok so part 2 of my story. previous questions(it's not you it's me)
So things are going great between this girl and me. Both sides have feelings very good feelings. We both feel like well like we found the one, the one you rather not let go without a fight. We have so many things in common, past experiences the way we talk and act. From my side it's clear I want to go for it. But she, she is just scared. Scared of hurting me, when she goes out she tends to drink a bit and loosen up a bit and she is afraid she might do something bad. Kissing other guys would be the worst in her opinion, since she won't go any further than that. And this is not something she wants to do when she is in a relationship.
So this is the big thing which keeps her from giving in to us. I for one am not willing to let go that easily and move on and find somebody else. Everything just feels to damn good to do that.
So did any of you ever have a similar problem? What can one do to convince somebody like this to give it a try?
You've got to stand your ground and break that scared spirit in her. Assuming she isn't full of shit and that her concern really is that she'll melt down, what she needs to see is that emotionally you are stronger than her, strong enough to handle the feelings she is scared that she can't. Break the scared spirit, preserve the sacred spirit. Tell her you've thought about it and that it isn't okay with you to not be together, that you are meant for each other and that's the way it's going to be.
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