I have read a lot of questions here from girls who have a big problem with pornography. What's up with that? Does it threaten you? Have you ever watched it alone or with your man?
I am aware of feminist arguments regarding objectification and violence, but a lot of what I am reading here doesn't seem to be rooted in that. So what is it?
it doesn't make a difference to me. I understand that guys have needs. I'd rather him be off doing it to some movie rather than with another girl. I'm neither here nor there on this issue. I'm not for it or against it. whatever makes him feel better =]
I don't mind if my boyfriend watches porn, because I do. I'm the type that goes about it as "if you are going to do it, then that gives me full right to do so. " But he's been giving it away lately saying that he can't get hard off it anymore. I compensate for it. But that's aside the point, I find porn pretty erotic when I'm not with him, or just to excite the moment a little more. Since I can pleasure him, and the porn also helps me. I'm not all to concerned about him being distracted by it whenever. basically, I like porn. No objection. It just depends on the girl I guess. As typical of an answer that is.
I don't have a problem with it as long as it's not interfering with the relationship (like the guy always seems distant during sex cause he's off in some fantasy land, or if it becomes an addiction where he's spending hours a day watching porn). In fact, I like porn, and I watch it myself and with my guy every so often. It can be a good way to learn what turns you on (and also get ideas on how to make sex even better)!
The main thing is balance and moderation. Obsession with porn is definitely a huge turn off, but moderate porn is normal.
I'm all for porn- I like anime porn better...more interesting! I guess some girls don't want their guys to look at other naked womens bodies, so guys don't have ideas to "wander" and find someone else. I think its a natural thing, just another fun thing to do.
I think that's a total misconception. I love porn, its the best foreplay lol. Girls like porn just as much as guys do, some girls might not want to admit it but its true!
I love porn! Ever since I was 12 when I found my dad's stash porn is hot, I watch it like once a week. That time of the week again :P. off to some porn!
Omg! What girl in their right mind would dislike or feel threatened by porn. i mean get real most porn is an amazing turn on for both guys an girls. n I actually have a lot of fun watching porn with my guy its just amazing what it will do for a relationship and besides its just hot watching people have sex and all. But as your watching it an getting all hot and turned on you just wanna have great sex with your man and all. Well I do anyways.
I don't have anything against porn, though a lot of it doesn't appeal to me personally. I have watched it with my ex and I definitely don't feel threatened by it. And personally for anyone who thinks it is degrading, I think watching commercials where it is always a woman washing the dishes or scrubbing the toilet is a lot worse.
It doesn't bother me and it doesn't bother me if my man watches it either. I actually find it to be a turn on but like I say to everyone else everyone is different and has their own preferences. Some may like it and deny it because they worry about what society will say about them or what their gf/bf may think.
Really most girls do not like porn until the first time they watch it. Ever since I saw the first movie that I did I have liked it. I noticed that it turned me on too and that I can learn from it.
I'm not opposed to it at all. Put yes, some girls may feel threatened. When you look at other women, they may interpret it as you don't like them, or no longer desire them. Plus they may not be so confident so other naked woman make them feel inferior.
I'm not sure. a lot of girls don't like porn because we see it and it looks so perfect and great, and then we want our sex to be exactly like that but it's not. Porn has never turned me on at all and I find it disgusting. people just having sex in front of cameras for money or just to look sexy.. It's gross. They just look so perfect at sex on that camera and that makes us feel like we suck at it compared to them and I worry that the guy I'm doing is gonna think I'm bad at sex or something after they've seen those perfect porn stars.
Porn is normally very dirty and dramatic and when women decide to be intimate with a guy they want it to be pure and passionate. Porn just seems to be the opposite of what a girl wants her sexual experiences to be like and so we don't want to feel pressure to have sex that reflect the type of sex in porn.
I believe that naive young teens who grow up getting told stories about sex and watching porn end up thinking that these fantasies are actually what really happens in a relationship. I personally think that some guys these days actually believe that under our clothes, girls are typical porn stars!
I think this then leads to a girls confidence getitng screwed up as guys MAY be disappointed when learning that girls aren't all fake and unnatural like they are in pornorgraphy.
It's a fantasy world. In my opinion, watching it with my man or alone is cool. . Women or men can learn a lot to further their sexual life. A lot of women are just insecure with themselves, thinking their man wants to jump into bed with one of the stars.( It may not be the real thing but as a couple you can make into a real thing. ) Women need to be strong with their sexuality.