Do girls like to try and figure out if a guy likes a girl or not ... or... do they like it when a guy makes it obvious that he likes the girl? Because I don't want to get the wrong impression but it seems like girls who are shy, like it a little more when it is obvious. And girls who are more outgoing like to try and figure it out for themselves if you like them or not?
I know tht I like to try to fig. out if a guys likes one of my friends or me.but it is always really hard to do.i think.b/c don't let things slip tht easy.but I also like when a guy will jus come out and say they like my friend or me.b/c we get a little excited knowing that a guy wants us.but but can't have us jus yet.i mean tht is only if we are taken or not wantin to go out with any right then.but in the other hand.we like it when they tells us and then just get us.and take us off the market you could say!
Most girls I know like it to be quite obvious, but not agonizingly obvious. It drives girls crazy thinkin is he interested? I don't know! omg!!! Girls tend to freak, then make fools trying to find out. Save her the trouble and make it obvious without being so romanticly disgusting it makes her gag. Just tell her up front you like her, no BS attached.
It depends on the girl. I know that for myself, I'm only a shy girl when it comes to relationship stuff. So if a guy likes me, it would be best for him to show it a little because if he doesn't, nothing will ever happen. Something that would make me run the other way though is if he's TOO obvious because then it would just make him look desperate which isn't usually attractive.
Well I'm a pretty shy girl, and do not have the most confidence in the world. I would say for someone like me, it makes it a lot easier if the boy is upfront about it and drops hints. Otherwise, I second guess myself.... and confusing a girl just makes her frustrated.
Yeah, it does depend on the girl. Sometimes guys that are really bold scare the girl away. I have so many "attractive" friends and they are always scared of the guys that make it obvious that they like her. You obviously don't want to be that guy. Try to be more like a gentleman and most girls who aren't REALLY shy or REALLY outgoing like it when the guy is just plain nice and fun to be with.
Yeah, you're totally right! It completely depends on the girl!
For example, if a guy said to me "Hey sexy, you up for it?" I'd be totally put off (and slightly scared!) but if a guy took a sweeter approach like "You seem really nice, we should meet up some time" I'd feel more COMFORTABLE.
It really, REALLY depends on the girl in question, and usually if you talk to them often you'll soon realise how they want guys to express themselves to them.
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