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Why don't decent guys ever like me as more than a friend?

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Living-the-ADvenTURe (Age:Under 18)     When: 7 months ago
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There are a few things that I don't understand about why most guys never seem to like me as more than a friend. I've been told many times by various people that I'm very pretty and that I have a great sense of style. I'm even nice to the people that I have a hard time liking and I've been told that I'm easy to talk to. I'm very open minded - I'm a singer, dancer, actress, love sports and almost anything I try is fun to me. I even have confidence in myself but not to the point where I think I'm better then everyone.

I don't understand why only the rude guys with extremely low self esteem are the only ones who are ever interested in me as more then a friend. Guys never even approach me! If I wanna just be friends with one I have to take the first step. I never had a boy friend because of this which isn't the end of the world but I would really like to know why in the world guys rarely approach me or like me more than as a friend.

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allmixedup (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
You're 15 and you are talking about boys sweetie...Give yourself some time and be a kid okay? I'm 30 and have dated over a dozen girls in the last 13 years. It takes time, you'll find someone good and sweet...Just be a kid and have fun.
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PureFury (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Shit, you're intimidating me over the internet because of how outgoing you sound. lol I'm not surprised you haven't found any nice guys. They are afraid to talk to you. You just need to find someone who can keep up with you I think.
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Stanley My guess is she's getting the regular assortment of losers that are out there, but she simply noticed that they're losers. - 7 months ago
 

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r3al-sag1ttar1us
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r3al-sag1ttar1us (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
(Speaking from someone who has had this problem) you just have to be patient. Most of the nice guys you are talking bout are intimidated by someone so outgoing & pretty. But if you ever find yourself in the situation were you really like a guy but it seems like he's too shy to talk to you, make the first move.
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