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Best way to make a move?

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sassy1 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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So I've got this guy friend. I've been to his house a few times, I'm pretty sure the attraction's mutual, but neither of us has made the first move. We're both pretty reserved typically cynical individuals, and we get along great as friends. Got any ideas for spontaneous segway into love-making that wouldn't be awkward and leave me humiliated by possible rejection?

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
If you know he's into you, the likelihood of you being rejected is very slim, if not zero.
If the two of you are watching TV on the couch, you could just sort of scoot closer to him and start asking him how he feels about getting closer to a friend. From there it should be easy.
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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 6 months ago
Well, from past experience I can tell you that what other females have done to me is ask for a shoulder massage, or back rub massage, and then as I'm giving them the massage with their clothes on, they say something like. 'I think it will feel better with my shirt off....', so she proceeded to remover her shirt.

The first girl that ever did that, I had no idea what that all meant, so then I continued giving the massage, and since I wasn't making a move (I wanted to but I wasn't sure if that's what she wanted), she said, 'that's so arousing', and well, that was enough for me to make my move.

The other couple of girls that did that, as soon as they asked for a massage, I knew what it meant.

Now, the other question is might be, how do you get to the massage topic? Well, once you're alone with him in his room or your room, or any other place where is just the both of you, then you can say. "My back has been bothering me lately, I could use a massage...", if he doesn't offer to give you one, then ask him "how are your massage skills..." and you go from there. Maybe there are other ways, but that's what I've experienced, and it worked for me----or I should say, it worked for the girl :)
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