I believe Paris Hilton did a PSA a while back on the topic. Perhaps you could download her video. While I'm sure it's natural to have curiosity on the topic, I wonder if this is the right forum for a step by step guide. I'm guessing you could find out more at the public library or by Googling it.
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
On my ideal first date, he would come and pick me up and take me anywhere but his house and the movies! I want to be somewhere we can get to know more about each other like dinner or another ice breaker activity we can do together. I'll wear what ever the date calls for, and it ends with NO KISSING, and a polite goodnight! :)
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date will know if there is any spark between us, and know if I am interested in seeing I'm again. He will also get to know a little more about the way my mind works.