So I met this girl a little bit ago and she seemed like the perfect girl for me. She was totally relaxed and not the least bit crazy, well so far. So anyways I was getting ready to ask her out and things got messed up. Well my supposed friends told her that I'm a cheater and a player. I've never even cheated before! Well this is just crazy because I usually don't date girls because the two girls I've dated have cheated on me. Left a bad taste for a while.
Anyways I liked this girl so much I was willing to trust her but now she thinks I'm a liar. She is so convinced that I'm lying to her and a cheater, she says she has this feeling that I have. She won't believe anything I tell her because her best guy friend is telling her this stuff. The kicker is that this friend still likes her because they dated last summer. She doesn't know this and only sees him as a friend. It gets even more stupid when this guy admits he doesn't know me and the things he is saying is only stupid things said around school.
I haven't talked to her since last Friday when she told me that she didn't wanna talk. She said she would make the full decision when she heard the full story from my "friends". Well she was supposed to respond to me yesterday but so far hasn't. So I don't know what to do. I mean this girl was the first one I've liked in a while, so much I wanted to ask her out.
Then again I hate how this just shows how much she doesn't trust me and in my opinion just plain stupid how she won't see that her friend has malicious reasons for talking about me. I just don't know what to do.
This is a tough question because on the one hand this could be a sign of how she is in a relationship and if she doesn't trust easy you two are going to have a hard time even holding the relationship together. But on the other hand if she is blinded by this "friend" who is lying to her she should know the truth but don't shove it down her throat if you do tell her what is up with this friend. She is not going to want to hear that her best friend is lying to her, so make sure you do it in a private way not at school or any where near this guy friend. If she chooses not to believe you then its time to move on, and you are no worse off then you were before. Also remember to be careful with your heart, you have been hurt before and this could be just as bad, or it could turn out great. I hope that helps...
If you like her, fight for her. Enough said. If you're really genuine in your interactions with her and make her see that you authentically like her, trust me, she'll come around.
NEVER let someone give you a bad rap if you don't deserve it!!! That by itself should be enough to make you fight for her. Tell her what he is doing, and make sure he is aware that you mean business! If she doesn't believe you then she doesn't believe you. Just make sure you don't go down without a fight though(not a physical fight though).
Do you girls like your guy to get into a fight over and over for you or for any other reason ?and you guys would you get into a fight for a girl?when...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Hmm..my ideal date..well..i had one of those so..let's see...i would wear something casual that fits me and my personality....i would go in a park or in a bar.my date will end with a hug.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Well...my name..where I live...what I like to do...what I like...my favorite music bars.etc
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