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The guy next door....how do I talk to him?

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iluvgiraffes (Age:Under 18)     When: 7 months ago
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This really cute guy moved in next door during the summer time. I want to talk to him or something to get to know him.

It's really funny cause I do just about anything to get a nice good look at this guy...I don't stalk him or anything I just try to get him to notice me. In the summer I would go outside and wash my car or something and he'll be doing yard work. Then I would voluntarily take out the trash and pull out the weeds in the yard just to be outside just in case he comes out for some reason. Its pretty pathetic. I try to do stuff so he would notice me but I don't think he does :( or at least he doesn't act like it.

This might sound really awkward but he followed me for like 20 minutes all the way home. We were stopped at a light and when it turned green I passed him and he started following me. I was really scared at first because I thought it was some random freak following me. But then I could tell by the car that it was him.

This happened like 3 times.. the third time he passed me and was all showing off and stuff it was really funny. That was a while ago..

And just yesterday I was standing out side my car getting something out of the trunk and he just left his house. I stood at my car for a little bit longer just so he can take a good look at me. Then he drove off. A minute later I was about to leave and he drove up again...he went inside his house came back out like 30 seconds later and left again. I left my house and caught up to him and drove up next to his car...gave him this little smirk and passed him.

Now I really really want to talk to him. He is really cute. I just don't know how to do it. Give me advice here

And also I'm sure he's noticed me.. I'm pretty much outside every time he is LOL Does he think I'm weird?

I need advice people :)

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sqyntz (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
The best way to attract a guys attention is to do something that you will need his help for!! Like plant something outside that is heavy and pretend like your moving it inside when he's outside working one day!! he will see you struggling and naturally offer to help and that's when you start small talk and introduce yourself! When he's done helping you offer to take him to coffee for helping you move the heavy thing and insist saying you couldn't have done it on your own!! If he is interested he will go for it!! It will work I promise you!!
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Question Asker Ha ha that's pretty clever,
what if he's shy though? I feel like even if I look extremely miserable carrying that heavy thing he wouldn't help me because he seems like he keeps to himself. I don't know. Thats a really good idea though. Thanks :) - 7 months ago
Answerer If he's shy ask him to help just walk over and say I'm trying to get this really heavy thing in the house but its too big for me to move on my own you wouldn't mind helping me would you? Even if he's shy he will help and if you initiate the convo he'll follow. - 7 months ago

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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
I think you come to NYC and that cute guy wouldn't be so cute...
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Question Asker Haha you're cute :) very clever lol. - 7 months ago

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The-Nash (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
You can really get this guy going ... leave a flower on his car (like under his windshield wiper) and say it's from a secret admirer. That'll Really, really want to make him curious. And you can put it on his car at night and see his reaction in the morning. This is so classic, but in reverse/ opposite (as in, if it were to come from you, a girl). He will never see this coming!!! And if you do- do this, you can even do this in steps and see his reaction along the way because you're so close. It's gotta work. The suspense will kill him. I mean, this is like a movie ... you can create a new email and leave it for him to see if he responds and talk to him anonymously to see if you like him. Then in the case that you don't; he'll never know it's you and you're still the girl next door!!!

Now I'm not sure if this would be the best approach (which, there are way better ones) but it definitely is so unexpected, you're going to blow his mind, and it could be like a scavenger hunt ... oh if I were you; or if you had my imagination right now, I don't even know, you don't even know, and this guy would have no idea of whats coming his way (I so wish a cute girl moved in down the street from me now). And I mean, as long as it done in the spirit of fun, and with good intensions- (if this happened to me) I'd be like: Whoa, what the... who would... Oh I got to meet the person who did this, I got to see what's up. If it's a prank or not (that's what I would think).

And if you do this in such a clever manner and if it backfires, who cares, he'll never know! And you can still go up to him and ask him out. DOES HE KNOW YOUR NAME? And if you find a friend with a dog, walk the dog around the neighborhood, don't pull weeds, lol, and when he notices the dog just say something with the dogs name in it, then introduce yourself, like: " Ha, he ____(the dog) must like ya, he's pretty friendly ... I'm ____(your name)," and then make small conversation ... you know, but think about the secret admirer one, lol, I'm joking but I'm serious.
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Question Asker Haha that's really clever.
Do you think he will think I'm weird. Or do you think he already thinks I'm weird. I don't want to make any moves if he already thinks I'm a complete freak. What do you think he thinks of me? - 7 months ago
Answerer If the car thing was like, him showing off, then you already have his attention. I mean he just moved in, does he know a lot of people. And you got to relax ... breathe ... forget about the "freak" thing and start acting like the confident women you are. - 7 months ago
Question Asker Ahhh I see
Ok thanks for your help :) - 7 months ago
 

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TheFlip
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TheFlip (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Well...he's you're neighbor, right? Pretend you're baking something and that you've run out of an ingredient...and are so entwined in the making of this delicious creation that you NEED to go over and borrow that ingredient. Then, after you've borrowed it, leave him part of what you made to say thanks. :)
That's what I would do.
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The-Nash That's pretty good I'm going to buy extra sugar and flour now, lol. - 7 months ago
Question Asker Omg I love it! You are amazing, thanks! - 7 months ago
ricketts34 I did this. cept I asked him to help me with the burgers so he marinated and stuff! guess what! now we are talkin! - 7 months ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
Ummmm.. when you see him say hi and make small talk and do that for a few days then ask him to do something with you..
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Question Asker That's so random though. Could I do something else that won't be so weird and random? - 7 months ago
 
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