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The ex wife will probably have your boyfriends balls until their kid is 18. Unfortunately that's just how it is sometimes.
Is the divorce final? If they're still trying to work out the details and he wants anything to do with his kid he's pretty much going to have to go along with whatever his ex wants- unless he has a really good lawyer.
Did he leave his wife for you? The reason I ask is because 1) that would be a reason for her to want to set it up to where the child can only be around blood relatives and 2)that may be why you're worried about him cheating on you (if he cheated on his wife what's to stop him from cheating on you).
Like it or not his kid will probably come first. Try to be understanding, it's not the child's fault and the child deserves as much time with his/her dad as possible. You'll have to decide whether or not it's something you want to endure. The ex is hurt and may not give up her fight for a long while. It's a little sad that she's using the child to "get back" at her ex husband- at least that's how it sounds.
As for him going out with a friend? He needs guy time. Between his ex wife and you he's probably all woman'd out. Let him go have some beers and unless he gives you reason not to trust him- trust him! I know you love him, but being clingy or insecure would be poor timing on your part. Sounds like he's been through a lot. Be there for him, but give him a break once in awhile. Ya know?
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