He broke up with me, 2 days before new year's. We had a really good relationship except for the last 2 weeks. We were fighting a lot and it was partly his fault for making some decisions that upset me, and partly my fault for over reacting to his decisions. His friends moved in with him about a week and a half before we broke up, and that caused problems. They are only staying there for awhile, until the college semester starts up. But he changed when they were there, he'd make plans on top of our plans, he'd be rude and act stupid. He'd drink and party even though he said he didn't like it.
And I overreacted because even though he was being a jerk and acting foolish, he was doing to because his 2 single, party animal jerk friends were there. He was showing off and it was wrong, but I'm sure I could have handled it better (not arguing constantly).
But yea, we broke up. He told me that it has nothing to do with the fact that his friends were staying with him. And he said that he couldn't give me a real reason why, except that he was following what his heart was telling him, for us not to be together right now.
I'm being patient, not calling or texting him. I'm going to give him space and time. and a week or so after his friends move out I'm hoping he changes his mind. I really do love him and I'm not just lonely...he's a good man and the one I want to be with. What can I do? Will waiting help? any opinions? suggestions? advice? I'd really appreciate it, thanks.
Honestly I think your making excuses for your ex. you didn't over react & he was making bad decisions. & I think seeing his single friends had something to do with your break up. I think your ex saw what it was like to be single, & he missed that. but most importantly you shouldn't wait for a "jerk" like him to realize what he's missing out on. I understand you love him & want him back but are you sure a "jerk" is really worth your valuable time?
I do make excuses for him & I know he shouldn't have treated me like he did when his friends were around but he's not a jerk, I mean we've been together for 2 yrs & he changed when his friends came around. it's wrong but I feel like I can't throw 2 yrs away - 10 months ago
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The decision is up to you so if you feel you can't throw 2 yrs away good luck to you. - 10 months ago
I'm not sure it's that. we dated for 2 years. and he was very caring and loving. and his friends don't get laid or any action. the only one that did was him, from me. but thank you for your opinion. anything else? I'd appreciate the advice and comments - 10 months ago
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