Well me and this guy have known each other since elementary school (my awkward years) and have always liked each other. He asked me out in middle school but I turned him down because of the whole ruined friendship thing obviously we weren't as close after that. He did have a girlfriend like the year after. She cheated on him and he told me all about it.
One day he moved away before high school (that's when I got hot) and we saw each other at the end of the year party we were sitting in he living room alone he said he had really missed me and other lovey dovey stuff and leaned in for a kiss I turned away awkwardly on his birthday (his party) I was out of it me and my bf had broken up and I texted him the next day and apologized and we texted back and forth for hours. He asked me who I liked and if I was looking for a boyfriend (I was on the rebound) and I said that I didn't know and asked him the same question. He said he'd tell me when he wasn't shy then a year or so later I saw him once more (we talked occasionally on myspace but he rarely gets on) at my friend's birthday party as soon as I walked in he got up and hugged me (I had a bf then) we sat close, listened to music, he asked me to dance (he's a great dancer).
I told him to hold on I was texting my bf ironic huh? And his friend asked him to dance he couldn't turn her down but still I danced with some friends (girls) he was watching me kinda creepy I ended up dancing with this other guy nothing touch feely I did see jealousy in his eyes and while we were sitting down some girl asked me if I liked this guy and I said I had a bf and he asked me about him where he lived name school all the basic info and he go up and went to the restroom and sat on the floor instead of sitting with me :*(
When he left he hugged me but I was the last girl he hugged it was awkward he texted me like a week later it had been a while he just asked if he had the right number and how I was my bf and I of 4 month broke up a month ago and I can't help but think of him maybe it's the rebound thing again but I find myself thinking about him regularly and he just pops into my life when I'm nearly over him he's a really nice guy though nothing like I've dated a lot of guys try to get with me for my looks (tall big boobs) but he's different at least he was (i haven't talked to him in like a month :( )
He has a habit of reappearing in my life but it's been years and nothing has happened he's cute but I can do better looks wise but there's something about him what should I do? Do you think he could still like me? should I just forget about him? And if I ask him about I what do I say? what do you think is going on?
If you think about him and are willing to give it a chance (seems like distance may be a problem..?) I say you should call him and see if it's a possibility. He's known you long enough to know what you're about and not be into you for shallow reasons.
I kind of think since you aren't with anyone right now and are under the impression you can do better looks wise you want him around for the attention aspect. He's a nice guy, you know he likes you and you know can get away with it. I feel like you'd probably drop him when the next hunky guy came along. I'm only leaning towards this assumption because you mentioned not knowing whether or not your "feelings" were real or if you liked him because you were on the rebound.
In short: I think he'd be with you in a heart beat and you'd probably end up hurting him at some point. My recommendation is to stay in the friend zone for the time being.
Not too far like an hour but the different schools thing is a problem and I'm not sure if he likes me it has been a while since we talked. - 5 months ago
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