I am always ****ing stuck in the ****ing Just Friends zone, just look at my other question. I don't know what I do wrong! I like to try and get to know girls first before I ever ask them out. I Never just walk up to a girl and ask her out without knowing her. But every time I get to know them and hint at or directly ask them out they say, "I just like you as a really good friend right now" or something like that!
Now I have a whole bunch of female friends and no girlfriend.
Do I need to just be more random and ask girls out on a whim or what? HELP ME PLEASE?
Breaking down lingo is pretty straight forward. When a girl drops the word "brother" in a sentence ref. to you that for sure means we are "just" and "only" friends.. However if a girl randomly says "I really like you as a friend" she truly values and appreciates knowing you as a person. It could be that you're hearing "I really like you as a friend" and adding some extra verbage like the "right now" part...and coming to your own conclusions. Girls are pretty upfront while guys think being upfront is confronting which is two seperate things. Listen to what she is really saying. Now, if there is "only" in the mixture (no specific order of where its place) of "I really like you as friend" then you know the bottom line truth which is just only friends...Communication is key!
Bex, I always do the exact same thing. I hope you get "best answer" for this. If I ever call a guy "brother", he can pretty much bank that I don't want to be more than "just friends". Then, no feelings get hurt and he's doesn't feel "strung along". - 7 months ago
Take a little initiative. I completely like when a guy is straight forward or a little big dominant. Let's me know how he feels and its a bit of a compliment. "Katie...I really do like you and would love it if you would let me take you out sometime" That's really attractive to me. I tend to find the MORE I know about a guy BEFORE dating makes it really hard to start dating him. "Thatguy" really does give good advice.
Okay, Stop taking so long to let them know you are a male who wants to put his penis into their vagina. First impression is everything, "hi, i'm a friendly guy who wants to be your friend" will ultimently result in that... "friend."
The next girl you meet, don't hint or act like you guys are friends. Directly let her know right off that bat you are interested. If it doesn't work out, move on so that she's not another girl who will cry on your shoulders and then go out with your best friend.
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