How many of you girls out there don't like the look of guys penises? I mean I love guys to death, but I' can't stand looking down there when he's naked. I feel it takes the sexiness away from the rest of his body. Do any of you girls agree?
I'm not a girl but I think there's a reasonable middle ground here.
Meaning, guys penises ARE natural and supposed to be there so if you HATE them or feel disgust, something's probably a little wrong. Really, if you can't feel at least a relaxed, "that's the way he is" attitude with, well, 100% of his and your body, somethings probably awry inside you.
On the other hand, we all have our favorite and not-so-favorite parts and you can't say that we ALL must hold every single square inch just as dear to our hearts as every other square inch. Meaning, if you like washboard abs, white teeth, and an athletic ass, so you do. Other women might get off on height, blonde hair, big muscular arms, and have this strange little thing for guys' ankles. So be it. And I suppose some LOVE penises. To each their own.
That said, even I have to admit that aesthetically, penises (and a few other parts, like toes and that rough spot on your elbows) are not too graceful to my eyes. I think they're a little silly looking (and frequently, silly-behaving). I have no harsh, disgusting feelings, just acknowledgment that they're a little awkward.
And hey, I like women's privates, but I also have to say that in a beauty comparison, I'd likewise choose a healthy smile or the curve of a woman's back or a natural, well-rounded woman's breast over a close up of her privates.
The genitals just are a little unusual, on both sexes. But not gross.
I think if I were your guy and heard this, it would be a complete turnoff for me. I am not saying that women should love the way a penis looks, but hearing that would leave me limp. maybe something happened to you when you were younger.
I'm not like a guy that takes one look at boobs and gets instantly turned on. I don't look at a penis and get automatically horny. It'll make me THINK of sex, and then it could possibly turn me on but it's not instant. It depends more on who it's attached to.
What's not to like. They come in all shapes and sizes there's one to please everyone's taste. Looking at my guy naked is one of the things that really turns me on. Not just his package I mean the whole package. Chest, shoulders, arms....ect Guy's body are beautiful.
I guess everyone has their own opinions but if I was not attracted to him I could not have sex with him, it just would not turn me on enough to be interested.
I don't agree with you...I think its a turn on. Have you ever asked yourself what you don't like about it? Could it be pubic hair? or the smell? Does it matter if he's circumsized or not? You should ask yourself these questions you may not like something specific and your mind is telling you that the whole thing is just disgusting lol. If none of them in specific bother you maybe its just a personal thing. I'm sure you're not the only girl in the world who doesn't like to look. Just as some girls enjoy giving head others flat out refuse. You're not alone! :)
I never thought about this until I read this question. It has given me a whole new perspective on "strange penises". Seeing random penises (like in movies, magazines, in public by mistake), I am usually grossed out by the whole package. Penises come in such a variety of shapes and lengths and I think that because most girls don't see a variety of penises on a daily basis, "strange penises," we have to re-frame our paradigm every time we see a new one. After being with my boyfriends over time, I get used to the image of their package and accept it as common as the other extensions on his body, like his hand or nose. So I am familiar with it's shapes and textures and can appreciate it.
But if you are out on the street and some weirdo flasher gives you a show of his own, it is nasty because it is again something different. It doesn't match the images of penises that you have seen before and so it is grotesque.
Therefore, the attraction of penises must be a relative function of how exposed a girl is to random penises. Like a porn star may look at them as I look at hands. She accepts and probably has seen the same characteristics of one penis in another partner.
Maybe it is nature's way of further establishing the female's hesitance towards mating with multiple partners.
After combining the pleasure of sex with a partner and the image of his penis, it may just be pavlovian to start getting excited by just the image of his bits and pieces and you will find it sexy.
I love human anatomy and the entire male anatomy is sexy to me... I would say I love it and I think the penis would not take away his sexiness... well this depends on whether I like the guy or not... if I don't then I would say it would not be sexy to me .... also that depends on the look of the penis ... there are some that I would not stand looking at them, so it all depends.....
I agree with you in that the male anatomy isn't exactly the most stunning thing I've ever laid eyes on, but I don't think it takes away from a man's overall sexiness.
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