If someone was playing hard to get, but like they were still flirty with me, then I don't know maybe three weeks...but eventually it comes off as "he doesn't like me like that" or by that point I consider you as a friend...
It depends on how much you like the person, however if it's a guy playing hard to get, then I would give up by first chance. I mean think in general, who tend to be more ignored by opposite sex? Of course men, because no matter what, they're considered to be jerks of society. haha alright some of you're not ;) But if a woman is not telling up to your face that she's is not interested, than she actually is. You have to spark that thing of how to make her to show you she likes you, that's why women want men to make the first move. She needs to be sure that you care about her and would jump for her. If you're really interested you should not give up on her untill she talks it out that she doesn't like you.
I don't chase after guys so the answer for me is never.
And if guys don't know why some girls play hard to get, it's because we wanna make sure you're worth it in the first place. I put up kind of a defense so I don't have to deal with all the BS guys do. If he still tries to get to know me then I will like him even more b/c I know he's not a player.
It depends on pretty much everything - how cute, interesting, etc. he is.
Sometimes I like I challenge. But since I'm a girl, I'd rather be pursued than pursue. But if he's worth having, he's worth a little work, right?
And most girls don't count how long a guy pursues them. It's the integrity with which a guy pursues us that we pay attention to. I mean, if I'm being pursued just for sex and I know it, I won't even give him the chance. But if I sense honorable intentions, it won't take long before I'm hooked.
2 weeks is actually a really long time to be chasing a guy.. I would wait a week and a half - 2 weeks tops because guys shouldn't be playing hard to get. usually that's what I play, and if I want a guy.. I usually get him.. ;) so waiting more than that means he isn't interested or he isn't worth my time.
I will let a guy pursue me for about 2 weeks.. any longer and they think your not interested and therefore they move to the next best thing. - 5 months ago
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When: 5 months ago
I don't know about 1 week cause guys give in to me like crazy.
The girl that I like and I have been playing this stupid ass cat and mouse game for about 3 years now, and it's getting to the point where it's totally driving me crazy!
Play the same game back, if she is playing hard to get she must like you a little so she will be watching you just start flirting with other girls. Plus games are always fun to play.
I call them out on there crap right when they start to do it cause if you don't oh man your just going keep getting excuse after excuse and prob won't end up with that girl. Just tell her this be like I'm tired of your games and I won't stand for them, I don't have the time for your games, so if your into me then stop messing with me and we need to get together and go on dates, and if your not tell me right now so I can move on.
I really don't try and get girls who play hard to get I'm not into any damn games ever, I see playing hard to get as a waste of time if they like you then they like you, there's plenty of ladies to pick from
I like a challenge...but if they play too hard to get then i'll go after something easier....some girls are too stuck on themselves and they play impossible to get...guys lose interest pretty quickly....and if she ain't got nothin up there that's that interesting well then I'm not going to play any longer...thats why a lot of guys go for the sluts...guys can play hard to get too....