Okay, so here's the low down: i met a guy at a restaurant. I was sitting at the bar with my friends and we just started talking (yes, there was alcohol involved). he bought me a few drinks. he told me that he never meets girls at the bar and that he is really shy and all this other crap. he seemed sincere, but I'm not really holding my breath.
well, we talked for like hours and we seemed to really hit it off. he told me all of the usual guy bs, that he thought I was so pretty and he didn't know how to approach me. a part of me wants to believe this, but then again, I have my doubts because I'm just not a very trusting person. he gave me his number and I gave him mine. he told me to call him the next day and I told him that I wouldn't, he would have to be the one to contact me. he said okay. anyways, at the end of the night, I kinda leaned in and gave him a kiss good-bye because he seemed too shy to initiate it himself. it was nothing major. we weren't like making out or anything.
so here is where the confusion lies, at the end of the night he kept saying that I had his number, so I can contact him. I kept telling him that I wouldn't call him.. he would have to call me, but he really did seem like a shy guy. should I just call him or do you all think that this is a bunch of bull, so that he wouldn't have to call me, or was it just because alcohol was involved that he just talked to me for the sake of talking to me or is he really a shy guy that I should just call?
I hate feeling awkward, so I really don't want to call. I get a little nervous initiating the first move, especially because we both had had quiet a few drinks. I'm totally confused. it's been like a day and a half and he hasn't called. I need a guys insight. do guys really get nervous or am I just over-thinking it all?
ABSOLUTELY!!!!! Just call him. You obviously like this guy so do it. I hate it when girls just expect guys to make all the moves and do everything while they just want to sit back and shoot down the losers. Doesn't seem fair but I guess such is life.
If I were him I would think that maybe you weren't that interested. You did say that you wouldn't call ....... OUCH that hurts, that's probably why he didn't kiss you either. Not to be rude but if there is a guy that you think likes you then reward him for approaching you and making you feel pretty and all that other stuff. Let him know that you want it to work don't make it seem like I guess I'll go out with this guy or something.
Wow, you really don't trust guys huh? It's okay, I don't trust me either.
As nervous as you are, Guys go through the same amount of anxiety before he calls the girl. After dating and meeting women frequently, guys eventually get over the nervous call and just do it. This is what he needs to learn and you should let him do it. If he's too scared then guess what? Life lesson, You want something? Then go get it.
As a guy, you make the initial call. Learn, Live it.
Just stop thinking about it.
A. Hes shy and a total wuss B. He's playing you (well btw) and letting you wonder about him (like you are doing) and when he does call. You're heart will race with anxiety and you'll want to explore more in depth about this mysterious character.
So I went on my first date yesterday night and I had a blast. He was fun, easy going, a gentleman. Anyways, at the end of the night he said we should...
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When: 6 months ago
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When: 6 months ago
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