I'm a big, full-figured girl but i'm very confident and happy with myself. I have more confidence than most of my skinny friends and have no problem being the center of attention or randomly going up to a guy and talking to him. my question is, do guys find this behavior sexy or embarrassing? if I walked up to a guy and started flirting with him, would he respond positively or would he feel grossed out/try to get out of the situation? I heard that guys don't like loud/over-confident girls but a lot of the guys I know are attracted to that type of behavior, but does it go well with my image?
Hi Gal, Firstly can I say that you sound like heaps of fun to be around. Im wondering why you asked this question because if you have this confident attitude without being arrogant then you should have no troubles with guys really.
I don't think that being bigger makes much difference because I ask a lot of my guy friends what they think is attractive about a chick and they usually respond with ... looks is what gains their attention, but the girl that looks the most open, approachable and friendly will be the one that gets the most attention at the end of the day.
So it definately sounds like you have the personality .. so go get em gal!
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It was one of those questions that came up among my friends together and personally I think there are a lot of pretty plus sized girls out there.
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