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Planning on hooking up when he has a girlfriend?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 5 months ago
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So I have been talking to this one guy for almost a year now. We started talking almost every night since the beginning of school this year. Soo anyways sometime we talk pretty dirty to each other and really want to hook up with each other. But he has a girlfriend.. He is so cute though and I am starting to really like him! But I can't tell if I'm just a random girl he wants to hook up with or if he actually likes me and wants me. God I am so confused! We plan on hanging a lot but it never happens something always comes up and it doesn't work :( . He is a senior so he is graduating this year so is he just wanting to hook up and not care since we will be gone soon or what? HELP ME!!

Would it be to sluty to hook up with him considering he has a girlfriend?!

Update: Alright well he broke up with her and he is staying in town for college. Were kind of friends with benefits now but were keeping it between us.    A month ago

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
Him having a girlfriend would not make it slutty for you, but that's not the point. ... How would you like to be that girlfriend and have to worry about him doing it with another girl? Do you really want to have it on your conscience as being the "other girl", the girl that helped him cheat?

Plus, he can't be in a relationship with you, if he already has someone. You could regret it if you do it.
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Acuzio
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Acuzio (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Yes, it would be, and it might eventually be the cause of their break-up. Don't enable the guy to cheat behind his girlfriend's back. When you have a boyfriend, you'll understand.
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That-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Devil's advocate time:

You are the random girl he'd love to hit and brag about. You don't sound like you're interested in anything more then a sexual encounter (just like him). So have that encounter and hopefully it's an exciting experience.

He will brag to his boys about his score and you'll, depending on your g/fs, brag to yours.

Now the girlfriend, if you do it right you'll never have to confront her. She have no affiliation with her so she doesn't have any right to go after you.

Slutty? This guy is a dirt bag but it's not like you're taking on the football team.

So go, have a fun hedonistic time.
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Aedak
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Aedak (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I agree with sexwiseman, he just wants to use you before he heads off to college.
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sexwiseman
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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
If he is a senior ready to leave---do you really think he is going to stick around for you?
He just wants to score another goal before he leaves. Right now you think he is cute, but once he does you and leaves you, then you'll be upset. Plus, he has a gf already, so no need to be a skank!
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Well you're still just a random girl he wants to hook up with but hey, whatever you can live with.
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Um, girls like you seriously bother me.

Seriously, try having a little respect for yourself. If he really liked you, YOU would be his girlfriend. He wouldn't be hiding you and trying to use you as the other woman. But no, you've been "talking" for a year and you still haven't made it official? Wake up and smell the coffee OK.

You technically wouldn't be a slut if you hooked up with him, just a stupid bitch. He will just hit it before he leaves, not care about you, you will get your feelings hurt, and you'll still be that random girl he f***ed. And hopefully his girlfriend doesn't find out or you will have even more problems than that!
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I don't want to call it slutty because that just sounds so mean. I know your attracted to him, but think of it from the others girls point of view. your the man stealer even if its jut a hook up. if you've ever been cheated on then you know how bad it hurts. the guy is to blame for it but you have to have the guilt and that's almost worst. just think of it from her angle. and there are tons of guys with out girlfriends that are looking of a hook up or a relationship or anything you want.
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Lesae
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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
Yes. And it will get around and you will always be known as that girl. respect yourself more than being just a hook up. He gets bragging rights and you have to go back to school next year. I feel bad for his girlfriend. Shame on you!! Would you want him to do this to you? And you will make enemies. It's high school. Enjoy being young. Not who you sleep with.
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