Ok ladies I wanna know why when your relationship is pretty much down the drain and us guys tell the girl that I think its time we go our separate ways cause its just not working out...how come when we do that every single time the girl thinks your mean?
For example the other day we had really talked about going our own ways to make each other happy and then all the sudden she says that shes pregnant and I was in shock and then she tells me that I'm going to have to marry her cause shes pregnant and I don't wanna be married to her cause there's no drive there anymore I don't really have feelings for her but I also understand that shes pregnant and I need to be there but how can I get away from the marriage part please let me know.
i know the situation that youre in. well as you can see im a girl.and my ex broke up with me.on april 19 well we were still talking or whatever and we had sex on the 21st.of april.well we didn't have protected sex and i made him bust in me.(lol) well days went by and i told him i was pregnant. yet(i wasnt) girls are straight caniving bitches. and would do anything to get their way. thats what i did to him but then got back to my sences and a baby is not what i want. so just to know that she is telling the truth go to a nearest medical center and ask for a pregnancy test on her. and about the marriage part.you really dont have to get married. if ur having a kid itz automatically a marriage already.cuz you are dealing with a fmaily she just wants to have you .permanently
You guys used to be crazy about each other. Girls and guys are different in that girls want to get married, have kids and take care of her family. Most girls dream about that. Now she feels as if her life is falling apart. Her dreams are gone. There's no way, at least right now that she's ever going to understand your side. All you can do is be there for her. She's carrying the baby and I'm sure she's scared to death. This is why you shouldn't have sex before marriage. Just a thought. Make sure you're in a stable relationship before you decide to let your sex drive run it's course. Hope this helps.
"why does breaking up with a girl need to be so hard? " it would have been much better if you had generalized your case. Because if it's hard for your girl friend does not mean that it's hard for every other girl. That's because girls initiate break ups far more than guys do! Ur case is different. In your case any girl would feel like as if she has been misused.
She's probably not pregnant. It's the fact that she's losing you and knows she can throw this in your face so you'll stay. I think it's a bit extreme because if you stay around and see she's not pregnant then what happens when she isn't showing any signs in the near future. You'll end up hating her. Just sit her down and ask her for the truth and tell her as nice as you possibly can that you won't be mad and you just need to know why she is saying this to you. Explain why you don't want to be with her and ask her why she desperately wants you. Don't be like all guys and be a jerk about things. If she keeps this up take her to the doctor and see for yourself. If she's not then tell her she lied to you and that really hurt you and you feel like there's no trust and let it go. Move on you don't need drama if she's not pregnant
Just say that you do not want to marry her and just help her out with the baby until she finds someone else to marry and take care of it. I would also suggest to get another girl while you help her. She also could be lying that she is pregnant.
She could be lying about being pregnant. If she is pregnant however, be a man and help her out--don't run--however, do not get married. Nothing scars a child more than two people who hate one another but stick around becasue they were born, and it sets up a bad template for their future relationships. Better to live sperate lives but be a part of the kids life, than to marry for that reason.
If she isn't pregant--run! The girl has some serious issues.
Even if she is pregnant, being together with a child if you don't love her could harm the child... because he/she will see that you don't love her. she could also be lying about the pregnancy just to get you back. one of my friends did that. her and her boyfriend broke up and she really loved him, but he didint love her any more. she acted like she was pregnant to get him back, and he did take her back because he wanted to always be there for his child. after about two months she told him she had a miscarriage... but I told him the truth a few weeks later. that can just make your relationship, even if you are just friends now, worse so I think shes stupid if she's doin that.
First you don't have to marry her just because she is pregnant you need to take care of your baby though because you did play part in that.You need to let her know like hay I'm not feeling you anymore as a boyfriend or as a husband, but i'll be there for my child, because your child needs you.Its gonna be hard for her the first time but then she will get it an leave you alone, just take care of your baby
crazngirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Maybe she really love you and if she was lying that would be something stupid to lie about, well if you wanna go your seperate way and she loves you she would respect what you wanna do...you don't have to marry that girl..if you don't wanna pay child support then just be there for the child
YOUxKNOWxIT
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
You have many options: 1) You could marry her and regret it for the rest of your life 2) You could pretend that you have died and get a new identity 3) You could run away, abandoning your child 4) *this one is my favorite* You could confront your girlfriend/fiance/wife/random-girl-that-you-slept-with and tell her that you do not want to marry her by saying that it just won't work out. But, also tell her that you want to be there for her every step of the way with her pregnancy and after the child is born you want to be there for him or her.
It IS possible she's lying about the pregnancy, so make sure you find out for certain. Unlikely though... it would take a rare sort of scum to lie about something so terrifying. Yet it happens, sadly.
If she is pregnant, well, there's nothing to do but be a man and stick by her for as long as she'll have you. If you're lucky, that may only be a matter of years.
Hopefully, either way, you've learned to be more careful about where you put Mr. Happy.
First, make sure she's really pregnant. Some girls will use that as a means to keep a guy, sad as it is. Second, I think it's because we don't want to be rejected first. If the writing is on the wall but the guy is the one to read it, then the girl feels rejected.
(Age:Under 18)
When: 23 days ago
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