I know this guy and we go to church and collage together and over the last couple weeks I have realized that I really like him. So here's the thing he is a really friendly guy so I don't know if he could be liking me too. I also am very traditional and believe that the guy should make the first move, but I recognize that no one wants to put themselves out there if they don't think that there is a chance of something happening. I want to give him enough information so that if he did like me that he could see that he should let me know. Advice Please.
Not approaching him because you are afraid of rejection? Guys have had to do it forever! It would do you some good to approach him and see what can happen. Invite him to join you for lunch or coffee. That's not overbearing. If he likes you, he will easily accept.
If he is a very outgoing and friendly person, then you may be out of luck trying to figure out if he thinks your something special. Maybe you could ask a clergy member at your church to set you both up on a blind-date (not so blind, but you get the idea), or they could suggest to the guy you like that you're available and interested and let him still do the asking himself.
Well, you can try the usual hints, ask him what he is doing on Friday, but I would start just hanging out with him outside of church or class, and talking on AIM or facebook. If you keep talking to him and put some effort into really getting to know him he might get the hint eventually.
Sometimes with guys though, you have to be direct, so I would ask him out to lunch a couple of times, its casual enough to still be "friendly" if that's what he wants, but its also considered to first step to dinner and a movie and wil give him enough confidence to ask you out. The problem with tradition is that if you wait for the guy to make a move, sometimes you may wait a looooooooooong time.........
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Depending on the girl. If she is shy I'll just go to the movies with a group of friends so she can get comfortable. If she is flirty I would either take her out to a nice resteraunt/diner that isn't crowded or we could just stay afterschool and just talk to her if she isn't availalble for a night out.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
The date would know that I am not afraid to show my emotions and that I am honest and caring.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
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