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Should I date this older man, who I became really good friends with?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 7 months ago
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I am a 22 year old virgin. I am considering going out with a 31 year old who I have become good friends with. He only ever went out with one person for 15 years before they broke up. How do you think he will feel about me being a virgin. I am just curious because of the age difference if he will see this as a problem because I am assuming that at his age he won't want to wait for a really long time to have sex.

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Actually that's not a very big age difference . As far as him not wanting to wait long at 31, it depends on what he wants out of it . Maybe he's be willing to wait a while .

He might find you being a virgin nice, because he knows you won't be grading him in bed .
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cardioman65 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 7 months ago
He might wait for sex because he is older. When guys are younger, they always think of sex. Men still always think about sex, but as you get older, he may look to more of a relationship that is more important to him than just sex alone. You might have some differences because of the age thing, but as long as you understand that, there may not be a problem.
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the-82 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
You guys do have a big gap in age difference, but don't you think you can get someone around your age. Since you said he won't want to really wait a long time for sex I think you would be uncomfortable while not being ready and pushed into something
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Marie099 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Well. In my opinion the age difference is kind of scary. But. Then again everyones different. You need to ask yourself if you really want to lose your virginity on this guy and if you can see yourself living with him married 30 years from now. It shouldn't matter what age any guys is. If he respects you he will wait. And if he doesn't want to then its his problem. Don't let any man make you feel like you have to have sex
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