Ladies, how can I get the love of my life back?

I've been in a similar situation (I'm her age and have younger guys try to get into my life). The truth is that this is a big age gap and the only thing that has worked with me is a younger guy insisting that he has nothing in common with girls his age, that he is wise beyond his years, and after being with women my age (in your case her! ) that it is implausible to date a younger girl. It's a big obstacle for a thirty something woman to think about a real relationship with a twenty something guy. It really could have been a fling, and shame on her for toying with your emotions if that's the case.

Id say write the letter--be very mature about it and not desperate--and then try to let it go if she does not come around. There's a lot of fish in the sea!

For the update: If you feel it's right to write her a letter go for it! Girls LOVE getting letters from guys. It's wonderful. Don't worry about it ruining your relationship. The chances of that happening are very slim. For the 2nd update: Say exactly what you feel! Try free writing. Just with a pen and paper and write down all your feelings. Don't even think about what you're writing. When you're all done read it over and copy the most important parts on a new piece of paper. Trust me, she will love it! Good luck and follow your heart!

Look what you should probably write is remind her of the good times y'all used to have and how good she looked. Start off telling her your feeling slowly. Ask her what happened to lady That used like him a lot ask what happened to that lady. Tell her how much you miss her and how she means a lot in your life. Tell her all your feeling. Tell her that the age doesn't matter that love is always first and that she's the only you love and you would like to spend the rest of your life with. With nothing else to say I'll let you go and I wish you good luck with that letter. BYE!

Tell her how you feel in you heart. She might just need for you to prove to her that you are ready for an instant family. She also could be concerned that she is 35. Do you want children? If she is independent that could play a role too. But, go for her. Tell her you love her and want a commitment.

You need to tell her the same thing you just told everyone here "I don't want to let the woman of my dreams go" Let her know that you really care about her and you want to be part of her life. You understand you are on different levels but soon enough you won't be. You have to get her eye on you and you need to talk to her face to face and let her know exactly how you feel. It may take her a bit of time but unless she has another reason she doesn't want to be with you she will come around!

She might find you to be inexperienced. Keep in mind that she's looking for a father figure for her child in addition to finding a suitable mate for herself. Your relationship might have just been a fling. You can't date someone who's unwilling to date you.

The only hope you have is to try to convince her that you're the guy for her. Chances are, this won't work. If it doesn't, it's time to move on.