I met this guy at uni, we have been very good friends for almost two years now. But recently, from christmas its like he always wants to be with me. Especially when he needs some advice or to clear his head from issues. We also speak on the phone even after seeing throughout the whole day for almost two hrs. Even when I try to end the conversation he tells me he's not yet sleepy when I know he is. He is also very nice to my friends. Recently, he tells me he's coming over to my place to see me and he ends up staying the whole night(nothing happened) and then he leaves back home again. I noticed that he is always like a baby when he's around me. Even my friends noticed this as well. He holds me so close to himself, pecks me on my forehead and pecks my hands. He always wraps himself around me and I can't resist him. We have so may things in common so it helps us to understand each other better. Some days ago, he said he thinks I am in love with him and I covered up the issue because I did not want to say the wrong things. Again, he comes over to my place we go to uni together, eat, watch an epic movie, play around, make jokes and he comes so close to me and a wondering, is he in love with me because when were together its like we are the only people alive. I wonder if he is in love with me and is scared to say because of the fear of my reaction. Everyone says he is but he's just being stubborn. Please tell me what you think. Thanks.
It is apparent he is very interested. It also is a situation. If you are sure he isn't playing a game (to see if you love him or to bolster his esteem). Then he is actually a gentleman! HOWEVER if you value your friendship I suggest talking about it before acting on it (physically) If not, you may lose a friend because once it goes there. Its very hard to go back to friendship. If you love him, ask him if he ever thought of you as more than a friend? And see what he says. Its hard to go backwards so just proceed with a little caution. He will be flattered either way
I'm having the same issues with this girl I'm hanging out with. We've been friends for almost 6 months now and honestly when we do hang out we hang out all the time. When we hang out we spend like 10 hours talking. Just like you we talk tease tickle and joke around but nothing happens. The difference is that you let him hold you.
In my opinion is that he does have feelings for you. The question is do you have feelings for him? In reality there is a strong connection with the both of you. The reason he might be scared is because he doesn't want to be wrong. I know that's why I held those words from her. There's a little more to my relationship but If he loves being around you and has a lot in common maybe he would be to scared to say something and then it go wrong. That's the problem with a lot of friendships, the person could be the one but everyones afraid the other person doesn't feel the same way. So honestly what do you think of him? I'd say don't be afraid tell him if you love him but that would make me a hippocrite. I think he does like you because I like the girl I spend so much time with and it's pretty close. Actually She's really sending mixed signals. Maybe you could help me out to. If not that's cool I'm just happy to give advice and try to help others. Still I'd appreciate the help. I hope this helps you with your problem.
HI Dablah, hope your good. Sorry I never got back to you. Have not visited this site for a while now. How have things been with you and your friend? The one you spoke about when you sent a reply to my question? Anyways, thanks for your reply. I really appreciate it. Feel free to get back to me. Take Care. - 3 months ago
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Me and her are having issues because I'm getting so close to her and she doesn't know how to handle it because she has a low self image of herself . I haven't told her I love her because she said she's unlovable . I know that's when I should tell her but with her poor self image she won't react the way you'd expect . She'd get upset and break off anything . Were trying to fix our relationship and stay close but its hard to read what she wants . I'm just trying to be the best friend I can be . Any yours ? - 3 months ago
I think its pretty obvious he really likes you. He probably said you love him cos he was hoping you'd say you do so he could then tell you how he feels
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I dress well on first dates, wearing a nice shirt and jacket, sometimes with matching slacks, other times with jeans.
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