He is trying to control my life

I hope you don't have anything more to do with that guy. Guys like that are dangerous and nothing but trouble. . Just watch and see, every girl he gets involved with is going to be unhappy.

The guy is a total jerk. If he hadn't broken up with you, I'd have told you to dump him. You're much better off without an a**hole like that in your life. You deserve someone better.

I am glad you guys broke up he seen like a real jerk I hope you didn't do anything with him you are young.

Don't take this the wrong way, but you seem as if you're a little passive. You should tell him straight up NO. If you don't like something, speak your mind. Be outspoken. I would have told that little asshole off the minute he said some disrespectful crap like that. Don't worry about trying to be nice all the time, especially if they don't show you respect in the process.

Listen to what I have to say: This little guy is a future perverted controlling freak. You are way to young to tell some kid you love him and its only been 2 days. And the next time he tells you that you are going to have sex with him tell him he has to ask your Dad first. He is a loser. Guys don't make you tell them these types of things after 2 years for goodness sakes. Do not go to the movies with this kid. And sweetie he would take advantage of you. Don't put yourself in that position. He is the next guy you will hear about on TV in 10 years that has women tied up in his basement. Don't have anything to do with him and find a nice boy who wants to hold your hand and cares about you. Not Jeffery Dahmer.

If he's going to force you into it, I would STAY AWAY! The only thing that it sounds like he's after is sex. And the fact that he's going to force you, you could even report him now as a threat. I suggest NO. He also sounds like he could be the abusive type as well, considering he's trying to control what you say. Tell your parents, and have them do something. You really don't want to be around or involved with a guy like that. Seriously, don't go. I hope that helps!

Yeah trust your instincts. I think he is too serious too fast and I'd not bother pursuing anything else with him. Your not ready to have sex and anyone who pushes you into having sex or even talking about it is not respecting you and you don't want to have an actual relationship with this guy when he's already doing that.

As for if he would rape you, I could not be sure but, if you were my daughter I'd be concerned for your safety, and I would not want my daughter going out with him.

If you can't find another way out of it tell your Mom what's going on and she'll put a stop to it in a hurry, without you looking like you chickened out, and you can build trust with your Mom for leveling with her.

Don't do anything you don't feel like your still young you should let no1 tell you what to do if i was you i wouldn't go plus you never know what can happen to you please stay away from him if you wanna boy friend find someone that understands you plus your to young for that but please don't see him if you do take a friend with you just to be safe.

Yor only 13, you need to realize that you are too young to be having sex right now. TRUST ME. So if he says you have to sleep with him. NO you DON'T. I suggest you don't meet up with this guy,he is only saying he loves you because he wants sex,and he is only 14, what does he know about love? If he really cares about you, he should understand that you are not ready, I hope you make the right decision and stay away from him. God forbid he does rape, that will stay with you for the rest of your life, and is that how you want to have your first experience? Think about it carefully before you make any decision.