In March06, I met Guy1. I was dating him for awhile and then we separated because he didn't have time for me. I fell head over heels in love with Guy1 and never forgot him. I met another guy who I will name Guy2 and I told Guy1 not to com back in and bust things up. Needless to say Guy1 decided to come back in and decided he wanted me back. I was Guy2's first serious relationship and he fell a lot harder for me than I did for him. Needless to say I got myself into a pickle seeing both of them at the same time. I didn't know how to break it to Guy2. Then Guy1 and I got into a big fight towards the end of May06 and we decided to break it off because he has to go away for college sports. He's UFC fighting stuff. I was afraid of being alone and hurt so I kept seeing Guy2 because I thought Guy1 and I were done. Towards the end of july I started getting sick, went to the gynos and found out I was pregnant. It was Guy1's as I was 2 months along and wasn't initimate with Guy2 at the time. I couldn't get ahold of Guy1 because he was down in Hawaii. Finally I did and he was all excited and said he would be there, etc. When he came back in august, Guy1 and I decided to we were going to stay together. Got apt stuff, baby clothes, etc. I made a choice that I loved Guy1 and he was who I wanted. However Guy1 didn't know I was still seeing Guy2 while he was away. And Andy had no idea that Ken was any more than a friend. Even though I hadn't intentionally tried to, I ended playing them both. Needless to say when I finally told them what had happened they both got upset.
During September, Guy1 decided to do the same thing to me while still saying he wanted the kid and was with me. He was messing around on me and stuff. He told Guy2 and it was Guy2 who told me. I hadn't been able to get ahold of Guy1 for a whole week and finally I got a phone call from Guy2 and he told me what was happening. I was in a lot of emotional pain and was heartbroken. Needless to say all the stress and the pain caused me to miscarry in the middle of the night. I rushed into the hospital and they told me what had happened.
After that Guy1 and I didn't see each other for a year and a half. However he recently sent me an email out of the blue finally apologizing for everything. He said perhaps we could past things and talk but that he has no feelings for me. We've been exchanging emails and talking on instant messenger for about a week. He is still doing his fighting and doesn't have time for a relationship. I am trying to be just his friend but it is very hard. During the years I didn't talk to Guy1 I never stopped loving him and he continues to be the love of my life, During one of our conversations, he recently told me I was the love of his life and he thought I felt the same way. The fact was I didn't know how much he loved me. I am hoping if we take it slow, develop a friendship and learn to trust each other again, we might have a chance. Guy1 means the world to me! Is there any hope?
So whatever happened to Guy2? Is he still in the picture at all? If he is, forget about getting back with Guy1. If not, and Guy3 has not come along, there still may be hope. Sounds like Guy1 has a lot on his plate, and that you will be playing 2nd fiddle to his UFC stuff. Be prepared for long separations and a possible dump later if he is traveling constantly. There are UFC groupies just like any other pro-sport stuff, and nothing soothes the aches and pains better than a ready and willing lady.
Guy 1 has since gotten back together with the girl he was seeing after he broke up with me. He says he loves her more than he ever loved me. He refuses to get past his wounded pride and ever try to trust me again. One thing he finds hard to do is forgive. I know if I saw him in person I could break him but he won't let me see him because he is afraid of just that. We are no longer talking and he hasn't responded to my emails in a month. Guy 2 is out of the picture. May have to start looking again. - 5 months ago
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