How do I give an amazing BJ?

Step number 1 before your number 1.listen to your man's body language. I've heard women get mad at guys before they complain about a girl's oral technique.figuring a guy should just be glad she is down there. But if a man was performing oral on a woman.she would expect a performance worth the academy award. So allow feedback from your man. You will be glad you did.

The rest of these details I'll leave to a woman to explain.and I look forward to reading the answers.hehe.

Watch some porn that has lots of blow jobs in it to pick up some techniques, tricks and sounds. As far as not hurting his feelings, just make lots moaning noises when he cums and he won't care where you aim it.

You should just stop having premature sex with guys or else you will be seen as a sex object, and that will just destroy your personality.

I thought my 2nd half of my post made it, but it didn't and I didn't find out till today. To finish my thoughts on how to give an amazing blow job, see Bigguns post beginning with, "Practice. Practice. Practice. " below and continue:

Sorry (I ran out of room - I wanted to get this right - it is important as there would be peace throughout the land if all blow jobs were great! ). Where was I? Oh yes. When he swells up even more, you know he is coming. The swelling comes from the tightening of the pubo-glyceal (spell? I will look it up later) muscles causing the already blood engorged penis to be squeezed from the root forcing the spongy tissue to swell even more. Once you are comfortable with a guy, ask him (while he is hard and in your mouth) to close his anal sphincter (sorry - this sounds gross) like he would when trying to "pinch a loaf" off in the toilet. You will feel the swell immediately. This same tightening of the pubo-glyceal muscle happens during male orgasm and typically spasms which helps project the semen (sperm cells on their lift off! ) deeper into the female by "spurting" or squeezing through the urethra. Some guys spurt tremendously, some just dribble. Some are watery and some are "boogery". I have only heard porn stars say "It tastes great". I have tasted mine, and I can't say I liked it much. Maybe there are women out there who do, but my wife hates the taste and the texture, so she finishes me with her hand - I am not complaining - believe me. There are 3 types of women in the world. There are the Spitters, the Swallowers, and the Dodgers. And we all hate the Dodgers. (Old baseball joke. ) Anyways, not much to avoid - except guys who won't return the favor. DO-Practice. DO-Stay Warm, Wet & Soft. DO-Mix it up. DO-Make some noise (moan, slurp, hum - BJ's are also called Hummers for a reason) DO-Bite (gently and without malice). DO-Vary the pressure of the hands and mouth. DO-More of whatever elicits a groan. DON'T-Stop practicing. My wife is expert, but she continues to improve. She gives me Hour-long BJs on special occasions when I am good! As for trying to tell him you don't want him to cum in your face or that you won't swallow - TELL him. If he complains, move on because he will never appreciate the effort/offer enough to be worth your time. Have fun. Did I mention Practice? Your partner would love you to practice on him. If he doesn't, move on.

Don't be afraid to be quite rough. A guy's cock isn't fragile, its pretty tough. When you first start, pay a lot of attention to the head with your tongue and lips. Massage and squeeze his balls with your fingers. Use eye contact-watch your guy's face, act as if he's the most important guy in the world. Once you've got a rhythm going, settle down to a steady pumping action, mouthing his foreskin as far back down his cock as you can in a firm, tight action. Pause occasionally, and go back to teasing the head again. Don't let it all get too wet and lube'd up. If there's no friction on his cockhead it will take him ages to cum-you'll get tired and he'll get fed up.

I like to circle the head of my husband penis, and then use my tongue and lips going up and down the shaft. And I love it when he cums in my mouth. The first time I let him do it he was so surprised. He told me he was ready, and I kept on sucking. I don't mind it at all. I feel it it something special I can do for him, that makes him very happy.

Practice, Practice, Practice. Your thumb and fingers are a small, but good pratice "tool" or buy a cheap rubber dildo. Keep in mind that there is no such thing as a "bad" blow job. Some are just better than others. I hope this helps you get better.(Sorry if this is graphic, but you asked.) First of all, a blow job is a replacement or a convenient pussy - warm, wet and soft. Start slow and stay slow and finish with a quicker pace by hand or mouth - your choice. A good technique for an average size (6-7 inches) is to simultaneously go down with your mouth while coming up with your hand and meeting your lips with your hand - then reverse. You actually suck on the downstroke and just let it slide out on the upstroke keeping the tongue in constant contact. As you progress with experience, the tongue can do wonderful things on both the up and down strokes (swirl around it, swab it with a big wet "fat" tongue -my personal favorite! - or make it hard and pointy and try to dig a groove into the underside of the penis with it - Ohhh yes!) The simultaneous squeezing pressure of your hand will make it seem like you are sucking harder than you actually are or think you have to - it doesn't take much, but remember you are SUCKING on the penis. I never really understood why it is called a "Blow Job".

I don't want you to blow on me - I could do that myself. I want you to suck and lick and drool (yes, the wetter the better - at least for me - some guys are funny about lots of fluids - weirdos) on my penis. This sucking down and pulling up technique also helps you keep from becoming tired - as you are not always trying to "deep throat". Do this simultaneous hand/blow job technique for about 7 to 10 strokes (thats 7 to 10 ups and 7 to 10 downs for those of you that are counting), then release your handgrip, slide it down to his balls and gently caress and tug on them. When you have gotten to the balls, now is the time for a very slow double/triple attempt at a deep throat. Go down as far as you can without gagging (remember to practice!) This should bring about a good moan or two from him. Once you have made 2-3 deep attempts, move your hand back to the shaft and begin the simultaneous hand/blow job again for another 7 to 10 strokes. Practice until you can do this without really thinking about it.

As for your jaw when sucking and releasing, try to keep it in an overbite (top teeth in front of the bottom teeth) position. This will help relieve fatigue on your part and naturally opens the rear of your mouth/top of your throat to help prevent the gag reflex. It also naturally causes the rear or base of your tongue to pull back a little to help cover the gag reflex too. Also remember that teeth cannot be avoided unless you wear dentures, in which case remove them first. Otherwise, don't worry too much, just try to not wear out grooves in the same area by raking your teeth over and over in the same spot. You will know he is coming when his dick swells.

Lots of hands as well as mouth works for me. Licking up and down the shaft, and plenty of eye contact. I like teeth myself, but not too much! You will most certainly know when he's coming. I actually like to finish by hand, so that's an option to keep it out of your mouth. Tell him right up front that you'll do this, but no swallowing or facial shots. Maybe tell him you want him to cum on your belly or something instead.

I can mostly answer 1, 2, 4, 5. As for 1, I prefer if the girl was to tease while doing it. It's a real turn on. 2, don't go to hard or not soft, to hard just kinda, well you know. And if it's to soft, no point! 4, you should be avoiding teeth, unless he likes it. So you might have to try that one out. 5, I would prefer a girl that moans. Once again, the moaning is a turn on.

1. Usually I suck my boyfriend's head like its a straw and I let my tongue go all around it while I massage his balls

2. However hard or soft he prefers it

2 (again. ) suck your lips in

3. If he won't tell you, his reaction will give it away

4. AVOID TEETH

5. Guys don't really like when you talk to them, unless you're talking dirty

6. If he's horny enough, he might not care so much about whether you swallow or want it in your face. If he doesn't like it, that's his problem

One trick - without taking it all in your mouth, just rub your tongue up and down the underside. You should actually detect a sort of softer spot which tends to be very sensitive. Some guys will come so quickly when you hit it right! And it is easier to keep your teeth out of the way, since he is not entirely in your mouth. (also great for guys with very large penises). Alternate between having him in your mouth entirely, then with the tongue flicking the soft spot. Also use both hands. And some guys seem to like having their stomach caressed as well. I think the stroking question comes down to a matter of individual preference - just ask him - 'is that too hard, too soft? '

When he starts to come, you'll feel a little jerk first and should have time to respond. I don't think most guys will assume the partner will swallow and they might warn you off. They are more likely to expect you to NOT swallow by default (but if you are worried, ask for a little warming beforehand). Also, most guys will not come on your face - also considered rude unless specially requested.