Ok so I've been dating this girl for like 5 months and last monday we got into a fight. We really didn't talk much until Friday. When we did talk we finally realized we were both just being a little insecure and defensive because neither of us wanted to get hurt. So Saturday comes and we finally see each other again. We spend the whole later half of the day together going for a walk, eating dinner and watching a movie. Well after all that we decide to have make up sex. The sex was great and we just about finished up I walk out of the bathroom and my phone rings. I figure even tho I didn't know the number I would pick it up. I answer the phone and who is it but my ex-girlfriends younger brother! WTF!? I haven't heard from anyone in that family in nearly 6-7 months and he chooses this moment to call me. So I answer the phone and I say "who is this? He says his name and then says "what are you doing? " I say "hanging out" then he hangs up. That was just the oddest freaking thing. I figure he was drunk or high. So I get off the phone and my new girl says "who was that? " and me being the honest retard say "that was my ex-girlfriends younger brother" WTF!? How do you explain this one to your new girl? Her insecurities were bad enough this past week. I can only imagine what must be going on in her head at that moment. So I explain to her that it was just a crazy coincidence (I had been telling her for the past 4-5 months that I haven't talked to my ex which was the god's honest truth). She thought I should have told him to "never call me again" but he hung up to quick. So then I gave her my phone and said call him back. She calls him back and starts asking him why he is prank calling me. This might sound weird but I really like this new girl and I didn't mind her doing that. My ex hurt me a lot (after 6. 5 years left me with no explanation) and I have to say it felt good having another girl call her brother back on my phone. Not that I really care that it happens but I hope his dumb ass mentions that to my ex! ROTFLMAO
What would you have done in this situation?
If you were my new girl how would you have felt when you found out who it was?
Update: I let her call because I didn't want her to think I was hiding something. Some are saying it was wrong but it made my new girlfriend feel a lot better. If it made her feel better about the situation I don't see why it would matter what she did, correct?
4 months ago
Well she called back and asked why they were prank calling me? They said "oh we were trying to call another (my name) we must have the wrong number" (how would they know my name then? ) they said they were looking to buy a house. (at 11pm on Saturday? ) - 4 months ago
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They hung up. Afterwards my new girlfriend told me what they said and then we had hung out the rest of the night without any problems. She actually seemed really happy, so I was glad. - 4 months ago
First off. Why would you suggest for her to call him. That was CHILDISH on your end! If you feel a need to make an ex jealous then your not over her. Stop playing the phone game and just concentrate on your girlfriend, if she is the one that you really want.
I updated my question. Let it be known that my first thought to let her call back wasn't to make my ex jealous but to make my new girl feel better. The ex getting jealous was just a perk. Besides it wasn't even my ex it was her brother pranking me. - 4 months ago
Wow. Sounds like you are not only NOT completely over your ex but you also have very little respect for your current girlfriend. Having her call back your exes brother hoping that he says something to your ex? Think about it, reverse roles. How would it make you feel?
I didn't make her call she wanted to call. The only reason I let her call is because I didn't want her to think that I was afraid to let my ex know about her. I have complete respect for my new girl. My feelings for my ex are long gone. - 4 months ago
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Then explain why you wrote the last few sentences? - 4 months ago
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Who am I to stop her from calling back? I never really had plans to seek revenge on my ex but when an opportunity like this presents itself in such an odd way who am I to mess with fate. Beside he called me. - 4 months ago
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Take the higher road and let the past live in the past. - 4 months ago
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Which ones? The questions or the ROTFLMAO. You know I was really hurt and I can honestly say that one day I wished my ex called and I could be like "Sorry I've all ready found someone else" - 4 months ago
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I wasn't going to miss the opportunity to let hr brother know because that was satisfying enough - 4 months ago
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Again, leave the past in the past or it can and will destroy the present. - 4 months ago
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It's basically like. I moved on. She went her way I went mine. I never attempted to contact her and I had plenty of opportunities to get revenge but I am a better person. I didn't come back into her life she (her brother) is coming back into mine. - 4 months ago
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If you take notice to my 2 questions they are about my new girls feelings. I didn't ask "do you think my ex will call me? " "do you think her brother will tell her? " I care about the new girl and I did what I could to make her happy. - 4 months ago
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I was suppose to go hangout with my boys tonight but because of this situation I decided to stay with her so she would know that I truly did care about her. I didn't want her mind to go crazy thinking I left and was calling him back. - 4 months ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I love the beach, So I would love to go there and watch the sunset ( cheesy I know!!) but then go back to his or mine and listen to music, talk about it...i love conversation. I would love to do something interesting, not just a typical dinner-and-movie type thing.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
They will know my passion for the arts, am sweet and would do anything for who I care about. they would know my faith and what I aspire to be. all in all i'd say they'd see a inda crazy-yet-grounded girl who looks damn good in tight jeans!
(Age:36 to 45)
When: 4 months ago
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