Is it ok to have sex with a 45 year old woman if you're 23 years old?

hahahhahahhahahhahahhahahahhahahahhahaha. NO! unless you wanna be the new demi moore and ashton kutcher.

if you really like her then yes it is o.k

if it feels right

Actually, I understand where you are coming from - you are looking for a teacher to show you about sex - because you feel an other woman will have more patience and be more gentle with you. But the age difference is too great! Imagine - as women age so does their skin texture, boob sag (not perky anymore), you look more like their child than their lover - and if she has children from a previous relationship - the children will resent you and her both. The other factor to remember - is that for a man or a woman as they grow older so does their level of activity. Whereas if you only look at the sexual area - a woman in her 40's has a much higher sex drive (not all women do by the way) - a lot of this has to do with the fact that most women have had a hysterectomy or a tubaligation so that they can't get pregnant - therefore the sex would be more enjoyable. Personally, as a woman 45 years old - dating a 64 year old - I know what I'm talking about - as well as having parents that are 15 years apart Mom 70 - Dad - 85. Good luck - but do yourself a favor - date women no older than 6 years older than you.

If he isn't married and has no girlfriend, I see nothing wrong with it.

Damn, I hope at 45 I can still get 23 year old ass!

Hey you're both consenting adults it's completely up to you.......remember age is only a number!

Listen Hunnie!!!! Its your decision!!! If you are into him, GO for it.....By all means!!!! Age ain't nothing but a number once your into your 20's!!!! The love of my life is 37 and I am 26 I never thought that I could be sooo into an older man, but in all honesty if you can have a relationship, friendship with a older Man, it speaks highly of you!!! For you have to be a mature Young Lady to have things in common with someone that is 45! N he must be a hottie!!!! Some of them older ones are looking better and better with age...Huh? Go for it Ma!!

Age is just a number. [unless that number is under 18]

I really don't see a problem with that, you're both consenting adults and if you find each other attractive and want to have sex, what's the big deal?

On the contrary to what some youngsters here might think, people have sex at all ages and at 45 a woman can be VERY attractive! ;-)

So if you like her, who cares if she's 45? Go for it!

She must be one good-looking cougar/ MILF, it's all legal, so it's up to you to decide if it's O.K. or not.

I don't think so that's a little more than twice your age don't do it

If you think she's hot why not?

I agree it's kinda nasty. But as you get older you find that age is just a number and does not make much of a difference if you really like someone.

I personaly would not consider someone more than 10 years older due to the difference in emotional growth.

Ew! All I've got to say. EW!

She's old enough to be your mom. I would never do it but if that's what you are into then so be it!!!

I don't think it's nasty. Age ain't nothin but a number the government puts on you so they can control what you do. It's just showing how long you've been here. Just because she's older than you, if you love her or really like her, it shouldn't matter.