Is this normal?

He is so selfish. What an asshole

I have this theory, and maybe you can give me a little more input. I think that if a guy is selfish in bed, which your man is, then this also is a representation of how he is in the relationship. Does this seem true to you? To me, if a guy is all about ME ME ME in bed, then chances are the relationship is all about ME ME ME. But in bed if his goal is to please you, then chances are, he is a very unselfish guy in the relationship. Does this seem to be true? Any other ladies wanna weigh in?

I cannot believe I am reading this right! Part of me wants to ask your boyfriend, "WHAT THE &%#@ IS WRONG WITH YOU?!? GIVE YOUR WOMAN WHAT SHE WANTS! ". I admire your enthusiasm in giving, but you should be receiving an equal share. I sure hope he is pleasing you well enough one way or the other. If not, you better talk about this to him and soon.

There are millions of guys who wish they had a lover like you.

I think it is extremely sexy that you love to do it. Putting aside whether he pleases you back you thoroughly enjoy giving and that is hot. Now if you aren't getting what you want in return then that is a separate issue. Which you didn't bring up so for now he is an extremely lucky guy and the fact that you love it is just flat out sexy!

Girls who love "giving" but don't require "getting" -- (usually) have low self-esteem or low self-worth. Their enjoyment comes primarily from the affirmation they get from the guy (assuming they're not prostitutes). There are TONS of women who fit this profile -- so in that sense -- consider yourself "normal" or at least "common". If you DON'T consider yourself as having low self-esteem but you still love "giving" more than "getting" -- then consider yourself "EXCEPTIONAL! " :)

If you're not getting anything back, than what exactly are you enjoying? The stimulation of your ego?

I think it is very normal to love to give and not mind not getting any in return. But I do agree that it might be because you have a little low self-esteem. And if you disagree with this that's understandable. It might just be that you love the power that you have over guy that you can get him off (thats personally how I feel). And that is completely normal. Sex and all things included can be very animalistic, which is very natural.

But if you do want something in return and your guy doesn't exactly want to go down on you. Tell him to finger you or something just to get you wet. And do you have sex at the least, cause if you don't even have sex. Then that's kind of not normal to get anything at all.

I don't think that it is normal either. He is being really selfish if he is taking and not giving back. It is all about him, you pleasing him that is. Then again he might not think that he can satisfy you the way that he thinks you want to be satisfied. Just talk to him about it.

I don't know where that guy gets his information but I think he is totally wrong! I as well really enjoy giving oral! I do not think there is anything at all wrong with it. I have very high self esteem and self worth as I'm sure you probably do as well. When did it become a crime to enjoy giving and not receiving? I do enjoy the receiving end as well just not as much as doing it. I say go on and don't worry girl!

No, I don't think that it is normal. I think he should please you also. I mean say something to him about that. It's really not fair. You need to be satisfied as well as he is.