I like this guy since I met him. One day we decided to meet each other in person, (yes we met online) so. He asks me one day "when do we meet? " and I told him we can meet tomorrow near this place, etc. We met, everything went fine, we talked about movies, shows, people, his friends, my friends, what we like, etc. Let me tell you, he called me many times just to talk before we met. (he called 3 times a week) but I didn't call back because I really didn't know what to say! But I called a couple of times.
Since the day we met we haven't talked much and one day I got real mad because he wasn't speaking to me on an IM. I asked him "were you disappointed that you didn't meet a hottie? " He said no. And that he was out of state at the time. Meanwhile I have seen him online many times. And he hasn't said hi even once. So, he said don't worry about that, I happen to think you're cute. (But to me I wasn't really sure of that). After New Years Eve right on the second day I told him that I like him and he said I like you too! But here's the problem he didn't ask me out because he told my sister one time when I wasn't home (they talked online) that he needed more input from me. Okay I get it, I'm shy what more do you want? He also told her he wasn't in a place to have a girlfriend at the moment. But know he has a job, and doesn't seem like he's free to me. He's always away. I send him comments on myspace, saying hey how are you? You know the basics, he doesn't even think to write back to say hi or message me. He comments his friends. Ugh. (He's making me crazy), Will he ever ask me out? I am just wondering about that, he has money. (he said he likes to go out when there's money involved and its fun too! ) so he says!. But I can't figure him out anymore, he doesn't comment, doesn't call. Doesn't message. (but a girl like me doesn't like it when guys spend money on her! I like the usual, talking and seeing each other, I DON'T NEED MONEY! ) I heard that if a guy is interested in a girl he will find ways to talk to her. Isn't that true? Should I just move on? Or what?
I would say move on, but it can't hurt to let him know why you are. Be polite, but explain that you thought he was interested and that it doesn't still seem to be the case. So you are not waiting by the phone. Nothing is worse than finding yourself years from now, wishing you had said something - or for him to wonder why (even if he should be able to figure it out).
I think the answer is already in your question. At the very end, where you said "I heard that if a guy is interested in a girl he will find ways to talk to her. Isn't that true? " That is so true. He will go out of his ways, work, hanging out with friends to make time for you. If he is not doing that, it means that he is not that into you.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would Probably start with the cinema, a casual film with a lot of talking points and things you can joke about. Then after the film and the ice has been broken, a walk somewhere beautiful so you have a talk and restart getting to know each other :) I would just wear casual jeans and Shirt and it would end with a kiss hopefully :)
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
They will realize I'm like a great long novel. I have a reserved beginning, not giving too much away but leaving enough to want to read on. And as the story goes on it becomes a lot more exciting trust me ;)
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