Sexuality vs masculinity issues

Well I'm not gay and with my last girl In the beginning I wanted to have anal sex. Well she never had it before and I teased her for a long time until she really wanted it. Then we took it slow and it felt good. Then after awhile she wanted it more and more. It began to become a little bit of a turn off. Why did she want anal so badly now? I mean I guess it felt good for her. But it was something I wanted to try as a guy but not something I would want to do every day.

Personally being of the submissive tendencies myself, I think it's all of the above, my dear! But, first with the power one, then the masculinity one, then trust followed by the sexuality of it? I see nothing wrong with this enjoyable behavior between two consenting adults, whether it is given by a Women to a man or man giving it to another man. I also, think that if a man is giving it to a Women (mainly as a first time for the female), he should ask if this would be acceptable to the Female before going forward.
Ms. Reed the man you mention in your letter seems to me to be little homo phobic of his own sexuality. Just my opinion. How can someone have an opinion if you've never experienced this type of behavior. It won't make you any more of less gay to have a dominate Female use you for her enjoyment as well as your own.
I hope this helps in any way to your puzzlement, Ms. Reed. I say, carry on with what makes you feel good and having that power over a man is a very strong one for some! Women rule!

I can't see how the act of anal sex itself is an issue of sexuality, nor is the issue of bondage. Does he understand the concept of receiving anal sex from a female? It seems like people don't really get that it's possible, though obviously requiring a strap-on. And bondage. Well, being tied up is a common fantasy that knows no gender or sexuality boundaries.

I would agree with you on the issues of trust/power/etc. He's got masculinity and male heterosexuality all tied up (no pun intended) with power, and really those things don't have to go together at all. It sounds like a psychoanalysis of this guy would be fascinating! Freud would be having an absolute field day with him!