There is this guy. I go to school with him, and I like him. A lot. I think about him probably 22 hours out of the day (not 22 hrs straight). The only time I am not thinking about him is when I am doing school stuff, sleeping (sometimes I even dream about him) or reading. Everything reminds me of him. I hate Friday because I have to go through the weekend NOT seeing him. I love Monday because it starts a whole 5 days of me seeing him. I can't just move on because I think he might like me back. I am just wondering, am I obsessed? Is it unhealthy? Do I need to get a life? Or is this normal?
It is normal. Not obsession unless you start stalking him or going to his house uninvited. But if you are just thinking about him a lot and like to see him during the week, its OK. I guess it is puppy love. Just wait a while and wait till he is available, or start puppy-loving a new person--what I am saying is don't try to make him break up with his girl for you.
That means that you is really into him and you the type that won't give up until you finally have that exact person that you like. So yes that's perfectly normal you should try talking to him more often then when the time is rite you should tell him how you feel and stuff.
So there's this guy and drives by my house all the time, he's always calling me and then if I say one thing wrong harasses me. So what do I do?
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I pretty much always start out with a friendly greeting. I follow that up with a comment or question relating to where we are (club, amusement park, etc...). After that, just find out whether she is there with other people and what they are up to that evening. If the conversation to that point goes well, I then ask her/them if they want to join me/us and take it from there.
How do they typically respond?
With this approach, I have had success (I would say at least 2/3 of the time) and it might have to do with the genuine attempt to get to know them. Its important to display a calm and confident approach because its those brief moments in which a girl decides whether to deny you or is left intrigued by you and is wanting more.