I met this guy whom I really like. We've hung out a couple times. The first time we hung out I drove to his house at 1:30 in the morning to watch a movie. We ended up talking during the whole movie, & I was so nervous so he massaged my hands for me & held my legs over his lap & just got closer to me every time he moved. After about 5 hours of talking he kissed me. It led to something more. We had sex, it was great sex too & after we just held each other, our legs wrapped around each other, his face nestled between my neck & my shoulder. We laid there for about 3 hours just talking again. He told me that he wasn't sure what he wanted right now. He told me so many times that night that I had beautiful eyes. The second time we hung out he drove to my house at 4:30 in the morning & stayed with me until 6. He always works during the day that's why we always hang out at night. Um That night we talked about our past relationships, he had 3 serious ex girlfriends all who left him for other guys.
We already have plans for 2 days this week to do stuff. We always text, he calls me & he told me that he loves talking to me. I'm not going to give up on him I really believe we have a connection. I just think that he's scared cause of his past girlfriends cause he acts & shows that he likes me. Is he?
He probably is scared, due to those past relationships. He might be clingy however, due to what you've mentioned about his exes leaving him for other guys. The first night you mentioned almost sounded like he ways just trying to get laid. The fact you went for it suggested to him that you might be more willing to please him than his past exploits. Just be careful, if you really like the guy make sure that he's willing to give you enough space, which he may not give you in the future if he's too clingy.
Absolutely he's scared. And he's probably very insecure, clingy, jealous. And it might be cute at first, but it will start to make you mad. Probably what happened to his other girlfriends. But I would say he is absolutely scared of his past girlfriends, just like anyone in that situation. But you might back off just a little bit and reevaluate the situation. Because I would be willing to bet that he is very needy/clingy with low self esteem.
If the guy you refer to doesn't like you then I would hate to see how he treated you if he hated you! Lol It definitely sounds like he likes you,but I'm having a hard time figuring out what your? Is. Are you wondering why you guys aren't "exclusive"?
If that's the case it seems he may have some hang-ups because of previous relationships, just keep going like you are and if it's meant to be it will work itself out. Enjoy what sounds pretty great already!
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