We have known each other for 3 years and we started going out and it's been almost 4 months and he says I deserve better than him and that I'm too good for him. What should I do, what should I tell him? I don't think I do. I could get someone else if I wanted to but I don't and I'm sure I never will. So what do I tell him, what can I do to show him he means more to me than he will ever know?
Girl I went through the same thing and look the only thing you have to do his be there for him, tell him how much you love him, and that no other guy his going to take his place in your heart. Don't contradict him because he's obviously gonna think that you don't care about him or your relationship. And if that doesn't work than ask him if he loves you and if he says yes than just say "why do you think I deserve better if your the right guy for me and that why I don't want anyone else". Well girl good luck with your man.
davidsgurl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
I was in the same exact situation. What I did was whenever he even started saying that, I told him to literally shut up. Not in a mean way but just the way that shows that you mean business. I asked my friends about it and what they thought it meant and they said that either he is insecure with himself, he's serious and doubting your relationship, or he just wants to hear you say "oh no babe, you're perfect!" or something along those lines. But I think you should tell him whenever he starts saying that stuff to shut up, in a loving but "I mean buisness" kind of way. Also talk to him about it. If you really love him and care for him as much as you sound like you do then sit him down and figure out what is bothering him about himself so much. Figure out what the problem is and then work from there. That's what I'd advise you to do.
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