We have known each other for over a year and have never been more then friends. But over the past month my feelings for him have hit the roof. We have become SO close its crazy! We say goodnight to each other and good morning every single day and we talk non stop. Things between us have started to change, we get more personal and closer to each other then before. We are always together. Sometimes we will just look at each other and smile! He is the only person that makes me smile like that. We are always touching, like in the smallest way! He will go camping and say up all night just nudging each other. We so dancing all the time, and last time he danced with me even when the music had stopped and when no one else was dancing just because he wanted to. He doesn't know I like him and I don't know ho to tell him, I don't know if he likes me too! Sometimes I think he does, he always talks about me to his friends and is always telling me how amazing I am! He is always willing to drive an hour just to spend time with me and hang out for the day. I can't help but think about him all day long every single day. He is the most amazing guy ever. My fear is that if I tell him I like him and he doesn't feel the same way our wonderful friendship will be gone. However, he is leaving in June for the USMC and I don't know if I can let him leave without telling him how I feel. I mean, he is naming his Rifle after me! That has to mean something! I'm just scared to tell him and I don't know how I'm going to! Its so hard and I'm so scared of loosing our friendship! Please tell me what you think I should do!
Well, this is the first question I'm going to answer but here goes anyhow.
I have exactly the same thing going on with me and this girl I know, despite being a guy this girl and I have become so amazingly close and like you said with the smiles. I can just look at her and she will smile which will turn into a laugh and maybe some imaginary "shooing" if I keep staring its kinda funny but hey to answer you question. I she turned to me one day and asked me out. I wouldn't say no. I would kind of like it. In this day and age there's no waiting for the guy to make the first move.
Just a warning most guys are different just like girls. This is just me I say go for it. If you can go out together have wonderful evenings alone, make each other happy just by smiling and he is naming his rifle after you :P that does mean something.
Just go for it. :) (you know I'm really starting to hate the " : " things. On this site they don't suit my smileys
I also had this almost exact thing happen to me. Fell for the best friend. I broke the ice though by staying at his apartment, him being the gentleman he is giving me his bed and him sleeping on the floor. I insisted that he sleep in the same bed with me because the floor was so uncomfortable. We laid in bed and cuddled all night. It became a routine thing until he confessed his feelings towards me, now we're dating and I'm 100% with him. Nothing beats falling for your best friend because you can never really get sick of him.
As for your situation I would take small steps towards a relationship. Kind of hint you want him to take you on a date and all that good stuff, he'll get the picture of what you're trying to do. But, most definitely give him signs if you're not planning on coming out how much you're in love with him completely.
i think I love my lad best friend.:S.we are really close and tell each other most things even who we fancy.i would say we flirt a lot and we blush...
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