Should I tell my boyfriend?

No matter how much this is hurting you its going to hurt him 1000 times as much (especially if you tell him the graphic version that you told us). DONT tell him but try to make him break up with you. Its the only way for you both to be happy (maybe not happy but its the best way)

As I heard many older married women say, "oh, you never tell them of your affairs"

Your gonna have to let this eat at you, let it serve as a reminder that cheating hurts you when you love someone - perhaps it also is letting you know you really do love your Boyfriend a lot.

If you tell him, you will only create more pain - don't tell him - and don't do it again.

Or dumb him and start seeing the dude you had great sex with, if he'll even see you again.

I think you should tell him, but don't tell him you enjoyed it and don't tell him that the guy's penis was so huge. That'll really kill him-:(

If you want your boyfriend to dump you, then go ahead and tell him. You also have to realize that you are NOT true to your boyfriend. You have three lies happening. That you're true to him. That you cheated on him. And you're lying about not remembering.

You now have two choices. 1) tell him and risk him kicking you to the curb. Or 2) shut-up and live with your deception.

Well I'm glad you had fun.

A few things first. In your first sentence, you said that you are "really true to [your] boyfriend". In the next sentence you proceed to tell us how you cheated on your boyfriend, to whom you are "really true". Then you continue,exclaiming that his penis was large and that the sexual intercourse was enjoyable. I assume you might blame this affair on you being intoxicated, however you remember everything. In conclusion, I realize I'm dealing with a person who respects herself and her boyfriend, to whom she is "really true".

You know what else is eating you alive? The clap.

Just tell him the truth and go screw over the next boyfriend that you'll be "very true" to.

-Just A Random Guy

He will find out one way or another. Either from you, or from other people. It might not be now, or in a couple of weeks, it could be months later, or a year later. But he will eventually find out.
If your boyfriend really means something to you, don't you think he at least deserves the truth from YOU? It will hurt him, but how do you think he will feel hearing it from someone else?

You will feel guilty about this until you finally get it off your chest. Trust me.
Whatever you decide to do, hold on tight because this is a start of a really bumpy ride for you two.

Did you get the guys phone number you hooked up with. Have you told your boyfriend the truth.

How long have you been with your bf? why did you cheat on him when you knew what you were doing. you say you love your bf but you did this to him come on girl. tell your bf the truth he will properly leave you he deserve better then that. sorry. p.s have he cheated on you. if so then maybe he will take you back.

Don't tell him he probably has his own little dark secret just think about it ass a GOOD TIME that you had_ it was a once in a life time thing! Stop betting your self up -n- move on and if he keeps asking you the same Question that means he doesn't trust you at all! Think about it this way. We all make mistakes

Well.
u should talk to him about it
maybe he will forgive you or something
or maybe not.

Well.
i think you should tell your boy friend the truth because if you don't and he finds out on his own he might think you kept something from him.

Wow okay obviously you have some things to think over. Maybe you're just not ready for a serious relationship. And secondly, if you were drunk maybe protection wasn't used so if I were you, I'd go see a doctor and get checked out just for peace of mind. And it's going to keep eating you alive until the truth sets you free. There's no way around it you know you're going to have to tell him at some point. Maybe he keeps asking you because he knows and wants you to tell him the truth. You'll just make yourself look stupid if you keep lying and he knows the truth. As humiliating as it is you are only human and we all do things we regret. It doesn't sound like you're sorry though so maybe you should just call it quits with this guy and give him a chance to be with someone that won't cheat and lie. Good luck with your decision hun.