My boyfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me recently saying it's because he fell out of love with me. I'm heart broken and devastated as you could imagine.
He tells me he wants us to be friends, best friends he said. We have actually spent quite a bit of time together since the break up. Were evening planning a canoeing trip for the weekend. He initially wanted to invite some friends but decided against it saying " I think we need to sp " of course changed the subject before actually finishing the sentence. Spend some time together is what I think he was going to say. What does that mean? I love him with everything I am and I so what us to be reunited as a couple. Why is he making so much more of an effort to be friends than he did as my boyfriend. Oh and I should probably mention the other woman who he met on the internet and been a pain. Tho she does live far away and hopefully there's no chance of them meeting anytime soon, Not before I get him to come back to me.
SO any advice on how to rekindle his love for me
Update: i forgot to mention that he calls everyday at least 3-5 times just to call
3 months ago
This is strange ... As you said, the things he does would suggest he is still interested. There are too many pieces of this puzzle missing. Obvviously he enjoys your company, but maybe he is keen to sleep with another woman. Who led the charge in bed ?
He sounds like he's trying to keep it neutral so that he can gauge how much he really feels. He might feel that if he pushes it too hard he'll manufacture feelings rather than having them occur naturally. Now this doesn't actually mean that he ever will develop those feelings again but he probably would rather take his time rather than rebound back into a full relation ship with you only to find it really didn't rekindle his desire.
Let the fires of this romance die down and you'll find some embers glowing within you. That's a better flame to stoke. It's more profitable in the long run. Besides, romance is supposed to be free and easy, not something you have to fight tooth and nail over!
Wow. That sucks. I know how that feels. I was in a relationship that was similar to this. I tortured myself by continuing to do things with him (I was so in love with him). We even got back together after being apart for six months. It didn't last again. After three and a half years of being with him, I moved on. I met someone new.
I think that if he really wants to be with you, he will tell you. In the mean time, stop torturing yourself. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear, so I will try to answer your question.
If you want to rekindle his love for you, make him wonder. He already knows you love him and you'll do what ever he wants, when ever he wants. Make him wonder a little. You aren't together. So what if he meets this other person. Maybe if you stop answering his calls all the time and you aren't always available (have other plans) for him, he will start to come around.
I don't like this though. It just means that you will always have to play games with him, for him to want you. Don't you want to be with someone who loves you and loves you for you?
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