People Relate dance with Sex. If you dance well, you probably.do other stuff well too. It's that sort of linkage that makes dancing with others (especially grinding iffy.
Erm. Everything? Sorry about the other language used to answer my kid brother there, but he has a girlfriend that I hope he doesn't disrespect like this. I asked him what she'd say if she saw his answer. This is something that should only ever be between girlfriend and boyfriend, not anyone else. It's just far too much.
Matt, what are you doing. Friends dance like that a lot or with strangers. Its just dancing. When it turns into something more then just dancing then there is a problem. - 6 months ago
Nothing, if he is your boyfriend he should be trusted not to do anything that would offend you, If you can't trust him enough then he shouldn't be your boyfriend as you clearly don't know him enough.
Is jy mal (are you mad)? Everything is wrong with it! That's far too much for anyone beyond a girlfriend to be doing. I hope you're not doing this with your girlfriend. What sal sy se as sy hierdie antwoord sien? She'll slap you silly! - 6 months ago
This truly depends on how strong your relationship is! If the relationship is early it will likely not go over well. If the relationship is strong then for most this is not a problem.
Honestly. I don't see anything wrong with is because it's only dancing! I've always been fond of it and I told my boyfriend that before we hooked up. These guys mean nothing to me it's just honest fun and when my JAM is on that's it! I just want to dance and not exchange numbers or anything else. Just innocent fun. I told him he can do the same thing. I wouldn't mind. I know he's coming home to me :)
I guess the question that should be asked is....are you comfortable watching him do it? if you are then are you serious about him? I personally wouldn't let my boyfriend do this EVER its about respect...i respect myself enough that I'm not going to let my boyfriend rub his junk all over someone else and watch...and if he respected me he wouldn't want to
Well. this is only my opinion, there is nothing wrong with your boyfriend dancing with other girls, if you trust him. If these girls are your friends, then I got news for you, THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS, letting your boyfriend touch them in that way. It is so totally disrespectful. if he feels he can do those things in front of you to different girls, and you don't have a problem with it, he will most definitely go farther than that with them. Why?? Because you don't know what is WRONG with it. EVERYTHING IS WRONG WITH IT. Good luck.
When dancing with other girls there is a limit, I think. Gettin booty-rubbed is out of the question. There should be a space between them. If they are slow dancing, conservative with respect not in a romantic way.
Because why would you give him the chance to find a girl better than you? And then turn around and get dumped for the girl you told him it was ok to be rubbed up on.
My boyfriend of five months asked me WHOM I was going to the dance with instead of asking me to go with him. What does this mean? Then I said I might...
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